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It has been said that foul language is the excuse for a poor vocabulary. Foul language shows the level of intelligence the person is using. The person using invectives lacks socially acceptable words; he or she is not the brightest bulb on the chandelier.

Ephesians 4:29 "Let no corrupt.(original is "rotten, putrefied"; like being just so fed up with something that you are ready to bad mouth {use vile language} about it to everyone; like it is rotting a hole in you).communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying.(building up; conversation coming out of your highest standards), that it may minister grace.(do some good, something positive).unto the hearers." Proverbs 15:4 "A wholesome tongue is a tree of life, but perverseness therein is a breach in the spirit.".A twisted tongue is one of the things which keep us cut off from our connection with the Soul.

Gossip is unfounded.hearsay spoken condescendingly.against a person's character, in order to.denigrate him or her:.Proverbs 26:21-23. Gossip comes with intent to reduce someone's good qualities through emphasis upon negative qualities:.Ecclesiastes 10:20 "Curse not the king, no not in thy thought and curse not the rich in thy bedchamber, for a bird of the air shall carry the voice and that which has wings shall tell the matter."

More on good conversation:.Ephesians 5:4; Psalms 34:13; Proverbs 11:12; 16:23,24; 8:13; 17:9; 20:19; 22:10; 25:9; James 3:2-6; Numbers 12:1,2. Ever wonder why we say things that are normally unlike us to say? We have all said things that have hurt another's feelings, things said that later we wish had not been said. 

Avoid gossip even though talking about others is better than talking about yourself and being a bore! People don't believe everything they hear, but they repeat it nonetheless! 
   Plastic surgeons can do almost anything with a human nose except to keep it out of other people's business! 
   A woman has two ideas about keeping secrets. They are either not worth keeping or they are too good to keep! 
   Keep your words sweet. You may have to eat them! 
   The reason we have free speech is that most of it is worthless! 
   An argument can be a angry close-minded dissertation or a friendly discussion by people exchanging ideas in order to increase knowledge as they seek the truth about something.
   He who sees that the walls have no ears will speak as he sees.

Gossip is talking about others in such a way as to defame them.

If you want to make an enemy, convince a fool he's wrong! "Giving advice to a fool is like giving medication to the dead." ...Deepak Chopra.

A fool is one whose heart's intention is different from his words to you: Ecclesiastes 5:4 "When you vow a vow unto God, defer not to pay it, for he has no pleasure in fools..."

Proverbs 12:15 "The way of a fool is right in his own eyes....." Proverbs 17:10 "A reproof enters more into a wise man than a hundred stripes.(whippings).into a fool." Proverbs 28:26 "He that trusts in his own heart is a fool, but whoso walks wisely, he shall be delivered.(or 'escape' as the original has it)." Proverbs 11:14 "Where no counsel is, the people fall, but in the multitude of counselors there is safety." Proverbs 17:7 "Excellent speech becomes not a fool; much less do lying lips a prince." Proverbs 17:9 "He that covers a transgression seeks love, but he that repeats a matter separates very friends." Proverbs 17:12 "Let a bear robbed of her whelps meet a man rather than a fool in his folly.(better to meet a bear than a stupid.fool). Proverbs 26:1 "As snow in summer and as rain in harvest, so honor is not seemly for a fool." Proverbs 26:11,12 "As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool returns to his folly...See you a man wise in his own conceit? there is more hope of a fool than of him."

Most people hate anything with the connotation they may have been in error:.Isaiah 30:10 "Which say to the seers, See not and to the prophets, Prophesy not unto us right things, speak unto us smooth things, prophesy deceits."

And the real fool even avoids friends that could help:.Proverbs 27:6 "Faithful are the wounds of a friend but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful."

Why all the concern about gun control, when more harm can be done with the tongue!

A rather.h u m o r o u s t o r y.of king Ahab of ancient Israel who just wouldn't learn. It cost him his crown and his life. After he made alliance with Jehoshaphat, who was at the time king of Judah, to go to war, Ahab began to have second thoughts about it; like duh! why didn't he check first? The story begins:.2Chronicles 18:1-34.

Being involved with others will eventually bring forth the situation where someone needs money from you. Should you loan it or what?.Proverbs 17:18 "A man void of understanding strikes hands and becomes surety in the presence of his friend."

Do not give any control you have over things of worth to a friend, family member or whomever, unless it is a balanced bonafide.business deal and/or you are sure you can trust them and are willing to give it up totally if things 'go sideways' after the person's sincere efforts failed for reasons beyond his ability. By balanced I do not mean equal 50/50 control. By balanced I mean everyone is planned to benefit from the deal to the point according to what they have agreed upon and expect. See Matthew 20:1-15. If you make yourself surety for another's dealings and if, for one reason or the other, he can't fulfil his obligations, whomever is holding the agreement you signed to guarantee the loan to the lender for your friend, they will now come.after you.to make the default good..You'll be out the money:.Proverbs 11:15 "He that is surety for a stranger shall smart for it and he that hates suretiship is sure."

Loaning money into a formal business investment?.Matthew 25:27; Luke 19:23; Proverbs 6:1-5; 17:18.
   If you cannot give it, do not loan it, is a good rule to make for yourself. If you can give it and do loan it, well then...

Avoid usury:.Ezekiel 22:12 "In you.(or because of you').they have taken gifts.(a bribe).to shed blood. You have taken usury and increase and you have greedily gained of your neighbours by extortion.(original is 'oppression'; consider what oppresses people today) and have forgotten.(not considered anymore; moved away in mind from principles of the Creator).me, says the Lord God.".How do you forget the Creator unless you have not known the ways of higher consciousness and are still stuck in the low consciousness ego level? It means not that you have forgotten Him, if you have not known Him, but rather that you are not connected to the Soul by means of your spirit which brings in through the connection, the things of higher consciousness.

Closer to the original:."They take brides to shed blood, they take usury so they can increase at your expense and enslavement, they oppress and cut off even their neighbors so as to gain more for themselves, all this because their soul's connection has withered."

Personal loans should not exist. If you loan money to a friend and he cannot repay you on time, in all probability he will avoid you. You have lost a friend, a friend who needed help. Friends helping friends would preclude.bank loans with the load factor of interest. You know why it's called interest? Because they are interested in all the money you will be obligated to pay once you agree to the terms of the load factor, such as in a mortgage. Learn about money. See the video Money as Debt on YouTube or at publicbankinginstitute.org

And learn about society not needing to rely on money. See on YouTube, latest videos of Michael Tellinger. After all, the true wealth of any society is in the productive capacity of its people, not in the availability of anything representative of that which is subject to up and down manipulation. If all was at no cost, people could follow their passion, producing in love for others what they want and humanity would thrive. Think about it! How often in times past have others got together and built a home for a couple just starting out in life who want to start a family. Who needs money when all could be available without it? But for a low consciousness individual money is the incentive.

Money hijacks this productive capacity and regulates it to the point of loss, a greater or lesser loss depending upon those few who control economies by the use of money in its various forms, such as M2 money, credit money. And all done for massive advantage to those few wishing to maintain control. 

We hear it all the time. We can't do that; we don't have the money. Well, if someone wants to do it and can freely get that which may be needed, such as materials, to support his or her idea, their productive capacity is able to produce. Money is only a representation of work done for someone. Honest.character is what is needed as it far exceeds decreasing worth of volatile representations of it.

If you cannot give another what they may need as an outright gift with no strings attached and hope for nothing back, then don't. If we bestow a gift or favor and expect a return for it, it is not a gift but a trade:.Luke 6:35 "But love you your enemies and do good and lend.(original root is 'gift' and 'debt', that is you borrowing to help another, if need be, but be sure you can make the payments), hoping for nothing again and your reward shall be great and you shall be the children of the Highest.(you are then of the highest consciousness). For He is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil.(and so should we be)."

And what if another spiritual person defrauds you?.1Corinthians 6:6,7.


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"Most of us tend to suffer from 'agenda anxiety', the feeling that what we want to say to
others is more important than what we think they might want to say to us."
...Nido Qubein
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