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Male/Female Relationships
(see also 'Mating' sometime)

 
If.your companion/partner does not treat you as he/she should, be thankful! Ha ha!

A relationship seldom goes on the rocks when a couple finds something in common to laugh about. 

Today's relationships still are for better or worse, just not for too long! Sadly though, some are dead and the 'box' they built together now gone.

Relationships good or bad last that way until changed. Be careful not to screw them up unless you are a sociopath liking to have something always to fix.

Love and enjoy the person you may be with, but don't kill it all by trying to own the person.

It takes some people all their lives to come to see that their relationships were only mirroring their subconscious.

The greatest long term relationships are spiced with a hot sexual attraction that is seldom far below the surface.

Some people hold to 'the man is the boss'. What does the Holy Bible say? I have heard it from some men that 'the Bible says' the woman is to submit to the man. Well, yes, it does say that, but in the verse immediately before that one, it also says that they are to submit to each other and in.1Corinthians 7:3-5,34.it says they each have power over one another, here speaking of the verb sex.

You can recognize true love when you know an assimilation of spirits is moving into one; both souls become one:.1John 4:7; Genesis 1:27,28

"A healthy immune system is aided by healthy relationships. Universal love espresses as personal love. Personal love is the concentration of universal love."....Deepak Chopra. A marriage license that you place yourself under, is permission from a government to have sex. It wasn't this way in the beginning:.Genesis 24:67.

It's a circle. Love circulates in the family of high consciousness. If you feel unloved, unworthy and unsafe, no amount of the opposite will help because the circle has broken for you. It is yours and yours alone to keep yourself in the circle. True love is recognizing another's soul, that is, to have in your mind that the other is also soul based.

A woman's happiness is directly related to her male partner's emotional state. If he is affectionate and empathetic, he is basically in rapport with her.

The Great Infinite One is no prude! He designed sex to feel good and be most pleasurable long after child bearing has past and into the age where you finally somewhat 'get it all together', the age where your body is falling apart and you cannot recall being absent minded, the age where you spend a lot of time thinking about the hereafter, the age where you go somewhere for something and wonder what it is you are there after! Ha ha! All reports are now in; life is officially unfair, but why? But it is interesting to see how those who are prudish read sex into many conversations, like this lady! Ha ha!

The bedroom cannot be defiled.(Hebrews 13:4).if both agree to and enjoy adventurous sexual variation. The Creator gave you an imagination. Use it! Learn how to be sexy; poses, clothes, voice, attitude, settings, variations, etc. Learn to turn each other on. Be artful and creative! Decide to take action toward ability to be increasingly passionate. 

If you truly love another, you will do all you can to provide an interesting and exciting sexual experience, knowing this contributes to ongoing and deeper intimacy. But for some, they live in an 'empty box' and for others who live in an angry box that's emptying daily, get out while you still can.

Sex for many involves manipulation for selfish amusement and recreation. How different and meaningful sex can be when one's attitude changes, changes to accept and appreciate the pleasure another is giving from his/her sincere heart just for his/her dear partner.

Every woman wants a man to be like a rhinoceros taking a month for foreplay! Lots of attention, hugs and kisses during the day make for an interesting time later. 

On enjoying it and using your imagination:.Proverbs 5:19; Song of Solomon 1:7,13; 2:14-17; 3:4; 5:4-6,9-16; 6:2; 7th chapter; 8:1,10.

In a relationship the man has a responsibility to keep it alive and fun through providing for necessary things to keep the relationship interesting. That which enriches a woman here.(new thoughts, new experiences, etc.), enhances the relationship. 

A woman has a responsibility to keep the man interested sexually and otherwise:.Ephesians 5:21,28,29; 1Corinthians 11:8-12;.1Corinthians 11:3 "But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ and the head of the woman is the man and the head of Christ is God."

The Creator designed our natures to work in harmony with the invisible things He has set, the hidden underlying 'code'.(for lack of a better word).with which we align ourselves through trust in Him and His words to us. Why is it good to trust in God?

A lesson.(Numbers 22:21-35; 2Chronicles 25:5-13).in trusting the Creator for the things we do not see and the example of Ebedmelech the Ethiopian:.Jeremiah 39:15-18.

Trust is having confidence in another regarding a matter of importance to you. Without His Holy Spirit helping us, we rely on ourselves, until life becomes so frustrating that we become discouraged.

We always seem to seek for ways to elevate the self and for ways to keep life interesting and seemingly.worthwhile.

Apart from Him, we really just seem to grope through life, trying this way and then that way, wasting time away from the only right way, which we cannot even discover without Him calling us:.Ecclesiastes 3:11 "He has made every thing beautiful in his time. Also he has set the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God makes from the beginning to the end."

But because of the low consciousness man came with, that he was designed with, we remain averse to the spirituality of the Creator. It is incumbent upon us to move from and into higher consciousness.

He created us. He knows that having laid down the example of love in Christ will enable happiness if we would just get on with it in our daily lives. Trust the wisdom of God and His word and they'll become yours toward happiness. If life is 'off track', then know that the mind over the life, needs to get on track. How?

Happiness usually comes from our thoughts. Whatever we may say that we want, a lottery win, a new house, greater security, it's all so that we can be happy. We are here to be happy! We are built with two things we can use to ensure we stay on the trail to happiness. They are comfort and discomfort. If you would only ask yourself if whatever it is be presently in front of your attention, is it comfortable for me? you would be able to stay on the pathway to happiness. If the feeling you get back to you after you ask yourself that question is one of discomfort, drop it, don't go in that direction.

We win a lottery, get a raise, close a deal, give birth, get a new car, house or go on a trip. This really is not 'happiness'. These things and events may make you happy, but it is all fleeting. True happiness as Deepak Chopra has said, is being happy "just because you are" happy. Deepak's DVD's are at local libraries. Some of their content.

Where you make contact with this Infinite Invisible and Intelligent Energy is when you learn to be in the still and quiet. Here you learn to trust this very real presence to bring your life into order. Here you come to see that you are entirely sane, entirely loved,.

But our natures are pride filled and naturally resistive, programmed to keep us from God, until He's ready and until you are as well. Without the help of His Holy Spirit, we could never really find the true God, because God is in a different realm, the high consciousness one and we are in, to whatever.extent, the lower consciousness one. So He gave the Holy Spirit as a free gift, so that we could use it by allowing it to guide us, permitting its power to subdue our self-reliant ways so we are able to trust His ways and walk forward.

We are all so darn impatient! One of the hardest things to do seems to be to wait on God:.Psalms 27:14 "Wait on the LORD. Be of good courage and he strengthens thine heart. Wait, I say, on the LORD."

You who may read this, have some wisdom and step back and observe the lives of others. Notice the personalities of others and ask yourself, What will their lives be like in a few years if they continue on as they are, listening to their egos?

Keep an adept eye on the futures of those you may so note and
T H I N K! Learn from the mistakes of others, so you can avoid those errors in your own living. Don't make the mistake of going through life not gaining from the knowledge contained in the scriptures, knowledge which can keep your life on track:.Mark 12:24.


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