A way to solve negotiation
stumblingblocks:.Psalms
119:165 "Great peace have they which love your law.(what
law? Is it the commandments?
Nope. The commandments are mostly 'shall not, do not' instructions. That's
ok. It is good to avoid certain things. However the New Testament goes
far beyond this, instructing us to go to great lengths to love one
another. In this the law truly is fulfilled:.John
13:35; Romans 13:10; Matthew
5:23-25).and
nothing shall offend them.".From
the higher consciousness level of the New Testament we enter into the field
of love where it's noble
to seek agreement and prefer reconciliation
to continued dissidence.
Having the very best interests
of our opponents at heart.(Matthew
5:44-46).and
knowing their values an opponent holds are right steps towards parties
coming out of negotiations successful. But you must realize things about
the unseen world behind the scenes. What good is winning an argument if
you lose involvement with another. One is never 'right' if another has
real or imagined reasons for dislike. One is never right if he has turned
the tide further away from friendship for no other justification than the
winning of an argument. With this in mind, one looks for what can be agreed
upon and avoids that which can separate and take everyone involved further
from harmony. A discussion is the exchange of ideas. An argument is the
expressing of ignorance.
The strong one is always
the one who has the most.(in
all ways).to
give, and fears losing nothing. He is the one that makes it all happen,
that controls the leverage. He is the one who has engaged in forethought
and set his intention on how he wishes to see the negotiations go. He is
the one who can see the harmony, the selfishness, the greed, because he
is above all these things and knows that harmony just cannot exist with
inharmony. He is the one who can lead the way if those others have minds
that are open, and if not, or won't open to higher standards, then the
deal should never take place.
Decide to find some niche,
some way.(Psalms
122:9).to
reach the other. When aligned with the Great Infinite Intelligence.(Luke
6:35,36), one has the guidance
necessary to see the end result quickly, as new things come to mind when
needed.
But what if another gloats
over your clumsy expressions of love which
may give him an advantage?.Matthew
5:38-42.
Asking God for wisdom in
the relationship.(1Kings
5:12;
James 1:5).would
also be a very good thing to do.
Perhaps use the words 'wise'
and 'wisdom' to search for references regarding this subject. When you
have a motivation of love behind you, inspiring you, guiding you and backing
you up, what have you to
fear?.1John
4:18; 2Timothy 1:7.
The
key
to a loyal mate and the key to building love in a relationship.
A Poem From A Six Year Old
Girl In Tennessee
(as
told by her grandmother; name unknown)
"God is a Spirit and He needs
bodies. He lives in my
mommy and daddy. When I'm
loving them, I'm loving God.
God needs
bodies. Some have lights in them and know
Him, but some do not know
Him, but He loves them anyway.
God lives
in everybody, but they don't know it and they
don't have any lights inside.
When they find out God loves them,
their lights will go on."
