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Money may not be everything, but it does help to keep you in touch with your children!

The reason many children are running away from home theseFacial expressions of children 1 days is to find the other parent! 

The way to know if a girl is starting to mature is when she stops being a Girl Guide and becomes a boy scout! 

What most children learn by doing is how to drive their parents crazy! 

Much of that TV violence occurs dragging the kids away from the set to bed. 

Summer is the season children slam the doors they left open all winter! 

The reason most parents aren't leading their children in the right way is they aren't going that way themselves! 

Anyone who thinks teenagers aren't creative has never seen one make a sandwich!

"The responsibility for instilling good values and building character lies with parents, teachers and coaches. If we don't make an effort to give children moral instruction, many will become predators."....Michael Josephson.

The most important quality to instil in your children is honesty. This is the way to ensure avoidance of the hard knocks of life. Why? Because we reap what we have sown. You don't want them to begin to sow negatives that will later affect them.

Being honest lays the pathway for reaping good things for them. Dishonesty brings heartache, maybe not right away, but the universal laws set up are inexorable. They always work. Keep your children on the blessed side of life. Teach them well. That is, teach them high consciousness ways so they benefit all their lives. Teach them that no matter what, honesty will prevent their lives from leaning into the dark side, wherein are many hurts. Teach them to forego any way that gives them advantage at another's expense and what one takes from others, he or she is actually taking from self. Train them well. What's more important than children?

When a child's curiosity leads them to sexual things, they often.pursue.senselessness, driven by a nagging.quest for some sort of satisfaction. Here, parents must be on the qui vive or the child could be hurt emotionally and physically and/or stray off the sexuality he or she was born with and into perversive.behaviors of one kind or another. Humans want to learn. Humans want to experiment.in order to see what they like; that's just natural.

Parents and other persons can form the future events of a child, either from low consciousness playing its tunes in their head or from the high consciousness realm. Just how does this come about and what is its importance to your child's future health and well-being? Be aware that richness of life does not equate to abundance of goods. Teach your children to be frugal. Teach them by painting scenarios for them, based on where they are in their intellectual growth. For example, they discover the sexual organs and may want to see if other children have them too. So, they may fiddle around with theirs and if out of parent's sight, fiddle around with the sexual organs of others as well. Their curiosity leads them into such things, but not being supervised, leaves opportunity for the dark side to implant directions that will lay groundwork toward a pathway of hurt. Parents must teach their children those things that will pave their futures with high consciousness living, otherwise.just what are they each a parent for?

Parents and potential parents may prefer their children be of a certain gender. There is a way to influence producing either a boy or a girl baby.

"There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."....Albert Einstein Theoretical Physicist.

Parents hold their children's hands for just a little while, but their hearts forever, especially so when parents have their hearts attuned to their chidren.(how?.Job 1:5).and family discussions are more important to them than time wasters. Never let time wasters come between relationships and if an adult relationship is a timeFacial expressions of children 2 waster, find one that isn't. If you don't gain something from it and another gains nothing from you, like hello, duh! Avoid the banal.talk engaged in by most surface minded people.

"See everything.only.in positive light."....Grigori Grabovoi. A little story that illustrates the principle.

Who cares about kids? Most parents do. Those who don't are in for paying a heavy price later in life as the kid goes awry. Don't cheat a kid out of a great future. If you do, your heart will ache when his or her tomorrows have to be regulated by the penal system or worse, as was in the case of ancient Eli.

What would your child choose? Four years old she received her first helium filled balloon from a local store having an anniversary. The color was purplish-red. Soon after leaving the store, her mom took her to a close local park which had a lake catering to only sailboats. She, of course took her beloved balloon for the walk down the hill toward seeing the boats sailing on the lake. She stopped to put down a drink her mom had bought her on the way to the park. She needed to adjust her socks that had slid inside her shoes. At that point the balloon headed upward so fast she could not catch it. She commented "Mommy, look at that balloon going up". She was in wonder over it rising.

Many kids would have viewed it as a loss and cried, as it would have spoiled their day. Not, Ella! She was a child filled with amazement at so many things and saw the positive side of everything. Her mother had taught her how to look at both sides of every situation and urged her to always choose the side with a sense of wonderment to it, the side where there was something to learn, something to gain.

Teach your children to do good and they'll be good. And the best way to do that is by being the change you want to see them become. It's by example children pick up behavior.

Teach your children how to pray.

One of the things you don't want for your kids is when they are older, for them to have memories of bad deeds that keep creeping into their present attention. This is tormenting. The way to prevent any torment is not have the bad deed happen in the first place. To do this parents must be involved with and watch their children always so they know at all times what their children are up to and who they are with and what is going on with them. Of course this advice will be like water off a duck's back for dumb ass parents.

Colossians 3:20,21 "Children, obey.(original is 'listen to, so as to learn from' and how do they listen? they mimic the behaviors they observe).your parents in all things, for this is well pleasing unto the Lord.(what's 'the Lord'?). Fathers, provoke.(original is 'not to contend with them to the point of them becoming disheartened').not yourFacial expressions of children 3 children to anger.('to anger' is not in the original), lest they be discouraged."

Children desperately need to be taught.definite things and those things are the things of high consciousness, otherwise, if you allow them to just grow up and then to choose the way they think is right from their mental database of what they have learned, they are already in trouble:.Proverbs 14:12. Some fairy tales are good to use.

Children are programmed by their developing egos to the greater or lesser extent dependent upon the degree of good parental influence. Remember they are highly influenced by their peers and in a new baby, also mostly by the environment. This means the baby acts mostly from the soul level. The tool of creating is consciousness, so, the baby has to grow into this. His or her consciousness, of course at this baby stage, just could not handle what an older child could. If it feels pressure to leave the comfortable place with the soul it presently has, this can precipitate illness. 

Babies pick up on the prevalent emotional environment surrounding it. Babies come here with the same task as we came with, that of making the world a better place for all, a place of transformation through clearing negativity it encounters as it grows, airing out the negativity using its creative tools of imagination and heartfelt intent. When a small child paints a picture, no matter what it looks like, he or she can tell you a story about it. And the story told is invested with a vision that is even more powerful.

A parent with spiritual insight can 'see' the environment the child is in and can take loving steps in mind to ameliorate it as necessary.

The way of the ego gets us no freedom. Instead it gets us the mass mind of humanity, so we all are exposed to whatever is in it and here are pains of experience, the pains including addictions to money, power, control, greed, drugs, too early sex and all others behaviors based on selfish intent, which are never seen as pains when steeped in the ego level.

Guidance away from the destructive things of the ego level is a most important parental responsibility. Better to have them learn by parental and good peers' examples rather than hard knocks of experience.

For children to understand just what to listen to from their parents, their parents must talk to them and thus, be involved with the development of their children. A good time for this.

Children have such an advantage, the younger the more so. All of us have a predilection towards evil. It is just the way it's all set up for an overall great purpose for humans on Earth.

It can be such an advantage to have smart parents, parents who comprehend how to bring up their children. Parents guided by their love for their children will produce children to be proud of. Why would this be so? They will become ideal members of a better society made up of more people who are effective with others, because they know all about themselves. 

Ask kids what came to mind when they did something. Raise your child with spiritual skills. Spiritual things must be cultivated, nourished and encouraged. Teach them to look for meaning in things in a simple way.("What does this mean to youFacial expressions of children 4 Susie? What did you like about that experience? How do you think the tree grows? Why do trees always grow up and not into the ground, ever? Why so many different kinds of trees and flowers; look at the design of these flowers. Why do the clouds move? What is rain the consequence of? Is there a way to get the fallen leaves back on the tree? Why do you think people pass on? Do you think they could come back here? How is it that birds can fly? Why does a garden grow? How come all seeds don't look the same? What could have been a better way to...? a happier way? a more efficient and productive way? Why do you think that they are building that structure? Why do they make cars to be so shiny do you think? Look at those flowers, notice the differences, why are they as they are? Why are the animals all different, some large, some insects? What was your favorite time today? Why do so many things in nature mimic the things of the human physical body? What was most important to you today? What did you do most today that you liked? Did you get all done you wanted to? Who are those you would like to be your friends? What do you see about them that you like? What do you see about them that you don't like? Are they acting in a way that makes others and them happy? What do you think about the way your body is developing? What is it that you like about the book you are reading? What new words have you learned today? What is an interesting book you have read lately? Why was it interesting to you? Do you think the invisible supports the visible? How do you think it does this? Teach them to observe patterns in what they see and so on; if you are alert, your children will also become that way and they will be wide eyed about life and interested in others and the things of others).

Children learn to act out the demands of others.(slavery). You don't want your child to obey out of fear and punishment. That's world controller stuff. We are now out of that age of subjugation and into a higher consciousness realm, at least inGetting away to nature. the mind and what's in the mind comes into physical reality soon after. Teach them what to put in their minds. Expose them to the good of life. Take them often into nature where the unmoving molecules are of higher consciousness and are more easily sensed.

To this end parents need to know just how to produce such ideal children:.Proverbs 22:15 "Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child, but the rod of correction.(for 'rod of correction' see on at the verse link).shall drive it far from him." Proverbs 29:15 "The rod and reproof give wisdom, but a child left to himself brings his mother to shame.".(because she's the one normally home with her children).Proverbs 22:6 "Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is older he will not depart from it.".Proverbs 6:23 ".....reproofs of instruction.(instructive correction).are the way of life." Proverbs 10:1 "The proverbs of Solomon. A wise son makes a glad father, but a foolish son is the heaviness of his mother." Proverbs 11:29 "He that troubles his own house inherits the wind and the fool is servant to the wise of heart.".More good Proverbs to help you.

Children have caused the saddest tears that man has ever had to shed. Why?

Parents are encouraged to be involved with their children in a way which enables them to experience success in endeavors important to them, circumventing the drag to become a dudhead:.Proverbs 28:19 "He that tills his land shall have plenty of bread, but he that follows after vain persons.(goin' nowhere friends).has plenty of poverty." Proverbs 30:8,9 "Remove far from me vanity and lies. Give me neither poverty nor riches, feed me with food convenient for me; Lest I be full and deny thee and say, Who is the LORD? or lest I be poor and steal and take the name of my God in vain.('vain' is to attribute to the Great Infinite One that which is not true, such as 'He doesn't care about me and others at all; what good is He? It's all a bunch of crap')."

Be involved with children in perhaps learning with them how to build a skateboard ramp, a treehouse, a garage. They will see how and learn to build something from scratch. Are you teaching your children to swim? Have you taught them to write a little story? or to tell an interesting story? Are you teaching them how to deal with their friends and what to look for in a good friend?

Once they've seen how you think, it's their turn. Ask them to make up a story right then and there and tell it to you. Perhaps at bedtime is a good time for the story. Even a two or three sentence can be a story. Children need to realize that they can be successful at what they attempt. They need to draw on that which is within them, even from their limited experience. They need to see that some things indeed do work, that some things are indeed worthwhile investing time in and that others aren't.

Facial expressions of children 5Those leaving their children to violence, be it on TV, movies and/or in selfish, violent and hurtful arcade and video games are actually breeding killers, as one former top military trainer in the United States Army has proven. His article is here. His email is LtColDaveG@aol.com. 

Children have many fears, most of which follow the principle 'emotion follows thought' fueled by information received. 70% of the children reported that their nightmares were caused by aggressive or frightening TV shows. What do you allow them to watch at Halloween time? In this you are either an exemplary parent or a bad ass one.

Maastricht University.(Netherlands).researchers found that these fears can be symptomatic of significant anxiety disorders. ...Behavior Research and Therapy 38, 2000, 217-218;.Journal of Clinical Child Psychology 2000, Volume 29, Number 1, 43-52.

"Since 1988 the rate of violent crime against female youths has doubled and against male youths 65%." ...Calgary Herald, December 22, 1999. Is it the food, is it the environment, is it the lack of parental influence and the effect of crime? Is it contributed to by the 'day care generation'? Perhaps all contributing factors for some.

Thirty-one Nobel Peace Prize Laureates, Champions of Peace, have joined together to send a letter urging world leaders to support the education of 39 million children.(thepetitionsite.com) who are being kept out of school due to armed conflicts. Children should be taught messages of peace, not exposed to war. But fear, disease and wars are tools for controllers to maintain their selfish stance.

And parents need to be aware of possible poisons in some toys. Check the Internet for 'poisonous childrens' toys'.

Children need courageous, affectionate and moral parents who Facial expressions of children 6understand correctly how to guide him or her, in order to bring up the child for his and her betterment; that is, so they'll have the tools of living, which of course are avoided being included in the horrible school curriculums which abound today. 

What examples could you use to teach your children patience, kindness, insight, seeing the good side of circumstances? What about coping, managing, how to carry on well themselves as they get older. These things will stay with them if they have learned about them:.Isaiah 54:13 "And all your children shall be taught of the LORD and great shall be the peace of your children." Isaiah 30:21 "And your ears shall hear a word behind you, saying This is the way, walk you in it when you turn to the right hand and when you turn to the left."

Rather than sacrificing your children to the 'video and computer game god' or to a 'dumb ass school', better to take them with you to be involved with other adults, otherwise they may end up as naive.as ancient Hezekiah.

Children are a blessing from the Creator and are always a blessing if their parents bring out of them the qualities of higher consciousness. Children are the way the Creator has chosen to bring us from the spirit world into this physical one.

Consider these two 4-5 year old girls sleeping in an alley in Manilla, Philippines:.Parents where? Who knows? 

When my friend asked the cop "what are we going to do about this" and received the reply "around the other corners are a million more, I don't know, the agencies are overloaded". To these two little girls 'wanting it all' never enters their minds. Only existence and that, for the moment. Two innocent little girls, all alone.

It is easy to see 'dumb ass' parents still cannot figure it out!.(*)
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"It is the nature of man to rise to greatness if greatness is
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