-Teach him or her
to become an expert at something having positive qualities that he or she
can build on; ornithology.(dealing
with birds),
fundamentals of computers,
interest
in mathematics, language
and the meanings of words.(etymology);
teach him or her to think and add to the knowledge gained from others through
books, talks with others, etc.
Walk with the wise to become
wise.(Proverbs
13:20); walk with the knowledgeable
to become that way too. Help your child, by using your own intuition
in how to develop and maintain a love for one specific interest at a time.
He and/or she will gain great
confidence as they become one with the object of their affection. Encourage
them to talk about what they learn. Engage them with experts in their field
of interest as they become increasingly competent.
Help them to go 'all out' to get good at something. Squelch
the TV. Limit time with their friends as intuition tells you. Early to
bed in time enough to be up at 5 or 5:30 a.m. to pursue study of their
interest. Read them.The
Autobiography Of Benjamin
Franklin.and.The
Laws Of Success.
Teach them how to become
dedicated, how to stick to it, how to discipline
themselves in making themselves do things that should be done that they
may not want to do. Teach them to not put things off; to do today what
is necessary to do today, so more time will be available for the new or
other necessary things that come along tomorrow and they will learn how
to maintain themselves
Once he or she knows they
have mastered an interest, even just one interest, then they'll know that
they can tackle anything life hands them.
If you refrain from proper
discipline, you are leaving your child to the courts to discipline him
or her later. What a shock it will be to your child then. What will the
child think? Probably 'I did my own thing all my life and now they're putting
me away in jail'.
Well!.Ephesians
6:4 "And, you fathers, provoke not your children to wrath.(don't
hurt them by overspanking and never in anger),
but bring them up in the nurture.(original
'training', 'instruction', 'nourish').and
admonition.(original
'dealing with the mind and intellect', set in place, 'establish').of
the Lord.".That
is, a parent's overall concern would be to establish higher consciousness
principles so the child can grow up a blessing to himself and others.
Proverbs
23:13,14.
Without higher consciousness,
the child can drift into being turned off, having adopted erroneous
beliefs or perceptions
regarding society and he or she won't have much of a hope for a decent
life in his or her future.
You don't want your child
to go to jail to have to learn discipline, It's usually too late then anyway,
but what is he or she being trained in now to be later like? Do
you have the wisdom to see the outcome of present actions. If not, get
wisdom. Here's how:.James
1:5.
A child who is not taught
to discipline himself, will have to wait for the knocks of life to force
it upon him and life will and some will be severe
and then maybe it will take till he or she is 70 before they finally wake
up. This then will be much harder for him or her and many will buckle
early under pressure of trials that could have been avoided with proper
parenting.
Children are trained to become
delinquent
by simply just allowing him or her to do as he or she pleases or allowing
them to
ingratiate
themselves with goodies you've provided that are supposed to make them
think that you love them. That's not love, it's blindness; blindness in
not seeing what your child's future will turn out to be. Most people have
no idea what spoils a child or how
to make his or her future bright.
By proper discipline.(Proverbs
23:13,14,24-26; 29:17),
you'll know at least that he or she will have the foundation for positive
building of a life they and you can be proud of, a life that will stand
the test of time.
Don't allow your children
to become a victim of idiocy.
Turn off the TV, on for about 5 hours or so a week and never let them watch
the silliness
and idiocy so
many childrens' programs hand out. They'll program your child into the
gutter. If you don't control their environment and their minds in the formative
years, TV and cell phones will and the prisons will increase inmates.
Bring your kids up. Do not
let them just grow up. Be aware of all they are doing, so you are
sure that it conforms to high
standards of character, morality and knowledge.
If you don't do these things,
you are destroying another's potential,
that of your very own child or children. You are contributing
to juvenile delinquency if you neglect
these things:.Proverbs
29:15 ".....a child left to himself brings his mother to shame.".It
is perilous
to leave a child to himself. Why?
By not disciplining him or
her with spanking, you are letting him go their own way. If you won't correct
him, the state penitentiaries
may have to take on that responsibility when he's older. Remember the universal
law of 'you reap what you sow'. So, sow the best you know and God will
direct the show.
Problem is, few parents have
the
wisdom to know the difference
between a spanking and a beating. One is used to emphasize a point of error
on the part of a child in order to protect him or her from future harm
by making the same error and the other displays the indignation
of a frustrated parent determined to vent his or her anger.
One focuses on concern for the child and the other is contempt
expressed by the parent. One is of love for the child and the other of
hate that the child did something unsuitable.
Take some advice from probably
the wisest man.(1Kings
4:29-32,34;
10:23;
2Chronicles
1:11; 9:22-24).that
ever lived:
Proverbs
13:1 "A wise son hears his father's instruction but a scorner hears
not rebuke."
Proverbs
13:24 "He that spares his rod hates his son, but he that loves him
chastens him betimes."
Proverbs
19:18, "Chasten your son while there is hope and let not your soul
spare for his crying."
Proverbs
22:6 "Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old,
he will not depart from it."
Proverbs
22:15 "Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child, but the rod of
correction shall drive it far from him."
Proverbs
23:13,14 "Withhold not correction from the child, for if you beat.(original
'smite, strike, smart').him
with the rod, he shall not die. You shall beat him with the rod and deliver
his soul from hell."
Proverbs
29:15 "The rod and reproof give wisdom, but a child left to himself
brings his mother to shame."
Proverbs
29:17 "Correct your son and he shall give you rest; yes, he shall give
delight unto your soul."
-Train your children as
to the proper ways to behave
so they won't be awkward.encountering
life's various.circumstances:.Proverbs
22:6 "Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he
will not depart from it.".This
is why it is important
for kids to be with their parents around other adults, so they can
see how mom and dad are around others and how others interact
with mom and dad.
In correcting, don't lambaste
someone. Your goal here is not to create fear of retribution
by means of angrily controlling and overbearing actions, but vision for
the future.
Here, those of higher consciousness
find better ways, one of which is knowing how
to use thought forms. Thoughts give off reflections.(*).
A spiritually inclined
individual notices them by sensing energy.."Man
is a structure of
consciousness having a given physical form. A thought form is a structure,
perceptible through the man's consciousness relating the information content
called thought. That is, a thought form is in fact
a
specific geometric shape which contains the thought of a person. Summing
up, we can put it quite simply. A thought form is a shape of a thought
containing some specific information."....Grigori
Grabovoi, page 146 in the book. More.
A
thought is an actual form, a structure,
an exact structure
in what Indian tradition calls the Akashic
record, the total of all information stored in the invisible
grid and produces after
its kind. A thought of protection for those you love produces surrounding
protective energy which is formed in the invisible.
See Gene's
invocation. One can demand what Gene brings out when one is part
and parcel.with
the one true God.
Mind mathematics comes into
play here. When you have a thought, the intelligent
invisible grid or Soul,
knows just how to handle it, just as it also has the intelligent programming
to generate a hundred trillion cells from one cell that divides only 50
times, with each of those cells having also a hundred trillion atoms and
all this massive intelligent complexity producing a wonderful baby in 9
months, wonderful that is, as long as it hasn't been poisoned by all
the things which could poison it.
Thoughts come to our consciousness
from
our brain, the processor of what
was received approximately 6 seconds before.(Amos
4:13).from
the
Soul of all, the spirit, as proved in quantum
physics in the fascinating.The
Holographic Universe series.(search
for it).
In this, thoughts from the
invisible God come into manifestation in life. What's in the mind
becomes
real in the physical world. That's how God does it and we are made
by God with the same abilities we need to learn how to use. When
do they become real?
This is the Creator expressing
as you if you are of
high consciousness and there is not
a place where God is not, so then how
are we headed to peace?
Are we still in the hologram
when in Christ? The
hologram
producing this physical existence is for proving
us, similar to how we would put horses in a corral
to get to know their natures, where they could be all the way from docile
to high on the wild side. Either extreme would be no good for most of man's
purposes for use of horses. So we work with the horses hoping to summon
an increasing energy out of the docile one and to tame
the high energy wilder ones.
And so, the invisible world
is watching humanity.(see
gene's short explanation in.The
Council of Seven, to find out more on the invisible world and how
these good ones help humans), learning
as we all go along in this thing called life. We are all learning about
how spiritualness affects humanity and as man grows in spiritualness, it's
for a great purpose:.1Corinthians
6:2,3: Psalms 8:4-6.
All in the invisible supports
the physical world. It's all a hologram,
where things, such as us, planets, etc. only appear
to have motion, a hologram which is programmable to those of love.
Why
only them? Choose the right timeline
for yourself and those you love.
The hologram can be changed
as we live life's experiences and decide to alter
ourselves to better ways.
Our life comes out of how we live. That's
our
purpose for being on Earth at this time.
This intelligent invisible
grid is like a computer which also has an intelligent grid called a
motherboard to route signals here and there in it and a hard drive that
holds an operating system, which is a program that 'tells' the computer
what to do with information you may put into it. Generally users can't
change the operating system, but you can change what you use it to produce,
such as, a letter you may write can be kind or hurtful. Life is similar.
We each have a soul and there
is an Oversoul. The big holographic projection is from the Oversoul or
God, which projects the multiiverse the Creator made and our universe is
one of the universes in it which is maintained
and can be altered
according to what the Creator wants in an experience at any particular
time, such as what happened with Balaam's ass:.Numbers
22:21-35.
The Oversoul or Soul with
a capital S, which Soul includes the spirit directly from the
Silence having the ability to communicate with our
spirit.(our
spirit also called our soul, small 's').for
the experience of humanity. Within our realm
we can program ourselves.
Within the Soul.(capital
'S' is the
Soul and small 's' is us individually {the souls that we are:.Ezekiel
18:4}).of
all is the operating system of the multiverse. The basic operating system
of the multiverse is already fixed by the great programmer we call Creator-God:.Isaiah
40:25,26.
What
is a hologram and what does
it do?
To those not loving, which
are those of ordinary low consciousness,
they have access to higher consciousness levels to the extent
of their care and concern and kindness to others,
thus
taking them along the pathway of higher consciousness which love is. The
lack of love is the limiting factor
of humanity, limiting to the degree of low
consciousness one has yet to move from.
Problem being that those
of close-mindedness,
as the ancient Pharisees,
Sadducees, scribes, doctors and lawyers were, just 'sit there' in their
negativity looking for opportunity to deprecate
others or as in the case of these ancients, even persecute others not of
their ilk:.Isaiah
65:2-7 "I have spread out my hands all the day unto a rebellious
people, which walks in a way that was not good, after their own thoughts;
A people that provoke me to anger continually to my face...Which remain
among the graves and lodge in the monuments...Which say, Stand by yourself,
come not near to me, for I am holier than you.(these
are the arrogant so-called elites of the world).
These are a smoke in my nose, a fire that burns all the day. Behold, it
is written before me, I will not keep silence, but will recompense, even
recompense into their bosom, their iniquities and the iniquities of their
fathers together, says the Lord... therefore will I measure
their former work into their bosom. Isaiah
65:11-15 "But you are they that forsake the Lord, that forget my holy
mountain.(that
forget about the spiritual side of living) ...Therefore
will I number you to the sword and you shall all bow down to the slaughter,
because when I called,
you did not answer and when I spoke, you did not hear, but did evil before
mine eyes and did choose that wherein I delighted not. Therefore thus says
the Lord God, Behold, my servants shall eat but you shall be hungry. Behold,
my servants shall drink but you shall be thirsty. Behold, my servants shall
rejoice but you shall be ashamed. Behold, my servants shall sing for joy
of heart, but you shall cry for sorrow of heart and shall howl for vexation
of spirit. And you shall leave your name for a curse unto my chosen, for
the Lord God shall slay you and call his servants by another name."
Train children about safety
and protect them when driving, walking, etc. Hey! It is a big job, but
far more rewarding than too much TV.
There's a key to driving
very
safely.few
know of. It's being a 'bubble driver'. Think of the vehicle you may be
driving as being in a bubble. All you need concern yourself majorily with
is being alert to what's in the bubble. The bubble contains the vehicle
in front, the one behind, the one on your left and the one on your right.
As long as you keep your main concern within the bubble, you'll have a
far less frustrating trip and won't make the mistakes most drivers make.
One other thing. Keep just
behind.(1/4
mile or so).the
majority of highway traffic at a slightly slower speed. Let the idiots
zoom past and catch up to the other ones where they feel comfortable with
the pack that likes to dart in and out of traffic lanes. You'll lose 30
seconds over them, but you are at much lower risk.
And, know where you are going,
get in and stay in the lane that will get you there. If the traffic slows
down in that lane, stay there; it will speed up again. Have some patience
will you?
People have been driving
with anger and haste ever since the wheel was invented:.2Kings
9:20.
When being a pedestrian,
always
walk between the lines when crossing the street, otherwise you could be
the one who is in the wrong if you get hit and therefor no compensation
under insurance; it was your error. Be
extremely
cautious here too when standing at a curb waiting to cross the
street.
And don't do as this dummy
did. She drove through a red light listening to tunes and no doubt, loudly
on her headphones, never hearing or even realizing she was driving through
an intersection not being alert for both the red light and the intersecting
traffic and so not seeing the huge fire truck bearing down on her. The
fireman driving the truck had to abruptly brake as he was going at a high
rate of speed, responding to a fire call. Watch out for these zombified
people, listening to tunes on headphones while driving!
Again, Proverbs
22:15 "Foolishness is bound in
the heart of a child, but the rod of correction shall drive it far from
him." Proverbs 17:21 "He that
begets.(brings
forth).a
fool does it to his sorrow. The father of a fool has no joy.".Esau's
example.
A child's training had better
include spanks on the bum as necessary.
Better to spank him or her now than to have them lack self-discipline,
ending up later perhaps as a criminal with the penal
system 'spanking' him or her, trying to provide correction.
Lack of loving parental training
leads to laissez
faire children ending up as alcoholics, drug addicts or sex perverts:.Proverbs
13:24 "He that spares his rod hates his son, but he that loves him
chastens him betimes."
Proverbs
23:13,24 "Withhold not correction from the child. For if you beat.(original
is 'to strike', 'smite', 'chastise to correct', not to hurt or injure,
but to correct, to show a child his behavior, such as being a bully
for example, is not only unacceptable, but will lead him into trouble in
life, perhaps even prison if his or her attitude
remains obdurate).him
with the rod, he shall not die...The father of the righteous greatly rejoices.(when
his children turn out most decently).
And he that begets.(original
is 'brings up').a
wise child shall have joy of him." Ecclesiastes
4:13 "Better is a poor and a wise child than an old and foolish king,
who will no more be admonished."
Ephesians
6:4 "And, you fathers, provoke not your children to wrath, but bring
them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord."
Psalms
37:4 "Delight yourself in the Lord.(what's
the Lord?).and
he shall give you the desires of your heart."
The way
of the world is one of lack
of self-control.(2Peter
1:6).and
lack of discipline
of self. Children do not know what to master because they are not taught
what
to master. Stupid parents don't realize the preciousness of children.
Lack of self-control allows
for evil influences to affect those so inclined
and may overcome them:.Ephesians
2:2. See 'breeding
killers', 'children born
good' and 'how to be
sure your children are blessed'.
Perhaps get the kids into
a good martial arts school. The discipline.(2Peter
1:6).and
kindness and respect for others they learn is priceless. See the movie.What
If? The Movie.for
amazing feats of martial arts masters. See the movie.The
Grand Self.for
moving from beliefs that limit your ability. These movies will help
you! Get them!
Tom Bearden talks about it,
here.
And as they progress to
advanced martial arts, they'll learn secrets
of time, motion and space. And they'll learn to run, to run as fast
as possible in getting away from someone who is angry and ready to fight
if what this scripture says doesn't abet
the situation:.Proverbs
15:1. Why run? Because you are trained and the other individual might
not be. If this angry idiot catches up with you as you're trying to get
away and you then 'lose
it' emotionally, you could severely
harm or kill him. And, you don't want the hassle
and emotional lifetime trauma
of dealing with that. So, avoid the angry idiots and maintain peace always
as best you are able to. Martial Arts trains you to control yourself and
always
to seek peace.
Keep peace at all costs with
everyone at all times:.Psalms
34:14; 1Peter 3:10,11;.Romans
12:18 "If it be possible, as much as lies in you, live peaceably with
all men."
One
of the 'as much as possible' things you can learn.
Great martial arts masters
you can learn from besides Lee Dawson and gene Decode 1,
2, are Bo
Gritz, Chuck Norris, Jackie
Chan; Jean-Claude Van Damme; Steven
Segal.
Teach them to
pray and to meditate, to study
and to think. Few things
are more beautiful than a child praying to his Creator. Children quickly
develop an almost intuitive
faith it seems and their sureness of God is remarkable.
When you spank them, they
learn that the behavior for which they are being spanked, is unacceptable.
If you choose not to, you run the risk of leaving a child to his own wild
and crazy thoughts and the actions that result, effectively leaving the
child alone:.Proverbs
29:15 "The rod and reproof give wisdom, but a child left to himself
brings his mother.(because
she is the one normally with the child the most).to
shame." 1Timothy 3:3,4 "Not
given to wine, no striker.(original
'bruiser', 'ready for a blow', 'an
abuser', 'a pugnacious,
contentious,
quarrelsome person'), not greedy of
filthy lucre.(greedy
{selfish}; will even do illegal things to get money to support his or her
vanities),
but patient, not a brawler.(ready
to fight at the slightest.perceived.provocation),
not covetous. One that rules well
his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity.(soberness
of mind; has some sense about him or her; has developed some good life
skills; has the life smarts to do well in life; has a good idea what he
or she needs to do well in life)".
It is a stupid
parent indeed that leaves a child in charge of his own will. See the good
advice in The Duties of Parents by J.C. Ryle, ...here.