By yielding to temptation,
one may lose in a moment what took a lifetime to gain! Delilah's partner,
Samson,
sure was thinking, but not with the head his brain was in. Was this guy
hooked on her sex or what?
She must have plumped and
pumped his
ego with
her game playing charm.(Proverbs
6:24).till
she got him exactly where she wanted him, dependency upon her. Too bad
Samson did not know this:.Micah
7:5-7.
She was
also selfish, could not keep her mouth shut and cared not for the man she
was with:.Judges
14:12-17.
Seek a
girl who is charming but is not, from selfish motivation 'charming
you'. I mean Samson hangs in with this lying deceitful evil bitch time
and time again until his destruction; until she finally got the information
from him that would lead to his destruction:.Micah
7:5. I wonder what the religious.legalists
who do not believe one shouldn't divorce would say about this relationship,
"go get counseling"? Gimmee a break!!
So, avoid the
woman who uses her body to use you. Avoid the man who charms you toward
heartache. Some people are like a disease, easy to get and hard to get
rid of! Avoid being an addicted lover. If you can't walk away, why walk
toward? Don't be like dust for a vacuum cleaner and get sucked in.
Some guys and girls become
so obsessed and deceived, thinking that there is none other out there than
this one present object of affection, that they go off the deep end and
become stalkers. This is pure idiocy coming from weak insecure people of
knee high intelligence.
I've talked to guys about
and have had the experience myself; where girls say, "I just want to be
friends". I told one girl who said that to me. "You don't have any friends
now?" "Oh no" she said, "I've plenty of friends, but you know what I mean."
Yeah, I know what she meant
all right. And I told her "Look, I don't play
games.(unlike
her). Why would I want a girl just
for a friend? I've got friends already. If I wanted to just talk and visit
all the time, I'd be spending time with them."
A woman should be your friend,
but a single woman who 'just wants to be friends', please, lemmee outta
here! Why waste your time? Her concept of sexuality is marked by confusion.
Find a girl who'll be your friend and much more. Get away from the 'namby
pamby' types. And when you do, do not hide your feelings. Tell her the
good that you think of her. Seek for a woman who has potential of being
a wise builder of a peaceful home:.Proverbs
14:1; Romans 14:19.
Ladies. A ring shows possession
and a diamond gets attention, but affection shows love! Now which do most
women covet?
Maybe the reason women's work is never done is they don't stay home long
enough to do it! Many women would make great wives, if they knew what it
meant to be one!
Johnny says to the teacher
"That's the same game we play at home, only instead of calling it musical
chairs, I call it dodging fists. When I get hit and when my sister is hit,
she says mom is playing soccer.(sock
her)."
On the whole, women seem
to be more easily deceived than men. Look at the men most women end up
with.(that's
most, certainly not all).
There are great upstanding
women out there, both Christian
in heart and secular,
but they are few and far between:.Ecclesiastes
7:28. And it is often not long before many of them become dissatisfied
with their choice for one reason or the other and the time for their
dissatisfaction is lengthened by realization of a prize
at the end. Women in it for a prize are women in it not for love.
Keep being on the alert
for a good mate. There are perhaps
a thousand you could match up well with,
but you have to decide on someone sometime if you're of the mind to settle
down and have a family.
A women looking to mostly
the physical things of living and lacking the balance that the spiritual
can add to her, will normally be on the lookout for a relationship with
the 'exciting', 'fringy', 'fun', macho
type of guy, the macho guy, the 'cool' guy, perhaps looking for balance
to a dry personality and hum drum existence, feeling that these types of
personalities may provide it. And they often get it in the form of an abusive
personality.
A girl or woman seeking what
she thinks in her limited thinking, to be fun, is a female ripe for her
life to be abused and so that happens because she also abuses the male
in order to gain some temporary fulfillment. Consider the amazing woman
Ruth.
Guys consumed with the excitement
of sex will seek it with whoever at the time seems to be a vulnerably
exciting wandering wacko.
If there are
hints
that's all they are looking for, run! Better to find a well balanced partner
and avoid the off balance ones.
A spirituality oriented woman
knows that in Christ are all things:.Romans
11:36; 1Corinthians 8:6.
We gravitate
to those whom we have fun with. Everyone enjoys pleasurable experiences.
Friends are fun! Like all things, fun should be in balance with one's other
responsibilities.
The kind, gentle, good provider
kind of guy is not usually at the top of the list until a woman has a few
experiences with those other types, the sex nut
case ones.
We often get severely hurt
for lack of wisdom. A woman
of intelligence will possess wide and varied interests and will seek a
man who also has depth, not the depth where he has submerged his life in
negativities.
For centuries silly women
only ever meet 10% of the guys out there, because these are the guys always
'out there' ready to hustle,
ready to 'go for anything', ready to 'handle' the world or so they may
appear.
Many women think 'all a guy
wants is sex'! Mothers, have you too not known any quality men and have
taught your daughters similarly?
Obviously these women having
been around the 'hustler' type of guy too long, have become blinded to
all the good quality guys. 'Fringers' of society are more interesting and
exciting to duplicitous,
unintelligent and just plain silly
women:.Proverbs
9:13.
Hustler guys are often sexually
exciting to foolish women lacking insight, vision and wisdom, women who
lack intelligence enough to
know what to talk to a decent man about.
Such foolish women focus
instead upon things that would excite their emotions and the egos of the
male dolts she's
bound
to be meeting. They usually engage street smarts of how to work
boorish.egos
to selfish advantage.
If you want to know if a
man is bad, look at his mother. Is she domineering, demanding, demeaning
and selfish? Is she still seductive? What does she care about?
