.
.
S i t e  S e a r c h

A_B_C_D_E_F_G_H_I_J_K_L_M_N_O_P_Q_R_S_T_U_V_W_XYZ

List of Topics__Ask Suby__Free Stuff__Questions Lists
Terms of Use__________________Privacy Policy

M a t i n g  C o n s i d e r a t i o n s
pa g e  2

Cooking: Just as scientists get differing results depending upon the mood they are in when working with cell forms, so the love of a woman.(or even a chef).can be told by the food prepared. The love is transferred into the food, providing joy and confidence to those who eat what has been prepared in love.

Cooking has been said to be the highest art form as food becomes and sustains our living cells. Food and its preparation changes temperament. Eating the right foods for a peaceful life is important. 

Try, as best you know how, to see the motives of the other. Some women get to you through affecting your ego. Some men get to women by interest and charm. Both are fine,.but, what are the motives for actions, is the question. Seek another's heart and you will find it. Seek your own pleasure and you will never see another's heart.

The domestic violence problem surfaces with the tongue used in a confrontational, rather than a humble and helpful way. 

You cannot have much peace knowing the other does not approve of you:.Proverbs 15:1,2 "A soft answer turns away wrath, but grievous words stir up anger.(see 'watching your words'). The tongue of the wise uses knowledge aright, but the mouth of fools.(ever watch the Jerry Springer show? Apart from some of Jerry's advice, how much else is worthwhile?) pours out foolishness."

Arguments often start because of an attitude where one believes he or she is right and this is an adversarial.stance one foolishly has taken. It engenders.strife:.Matthew 5:25 "Agree with your adversary quickly, while you are in the way with him, lest at any time the adversary deliver you to the judge and the judge deliver you to the officer and you be cast into prison." Mind you; daytime TV is not a total loss. Seven states are using it to replace capital punishment!

Matthew 5:5 "Blessed are the meek for they shall inherit the earth." Matthew 5:13 "You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt has lost his savour, wherewith shall it be salted? It is thenceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out and to be trodden under foot of men." Romans 12:18 "If it be possible, as much as lies in you, live peaceably with all men." Proverbs 15:1 "A soft answer turns away wrath but grievous words stir up anger." Philippians 2:3 Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.

All life's circumstances are to reveal to you your character, so you can see how you are and change the things that aren't good:.1Peter 1:7 "That the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perishs, though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise and honour and glory at the appearing of Emmanuel Christ." Ephesians 6:13 "Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day and having done all, to stand."

Watch your tongue!.Matthew 12:36. These guys didn't:.John 7:7.

Some things one should decide to never say or do.(see 'conversation'), are the put downs and the things which connote one's selfish discontentment and the angry arguing that only ignorant humans engage in:.1Peter 3:9. A fool is one who has allowed his ego to hold him at that level, disallowing his or her learning about higher consciousness considerations. Beware.of fools

The medical system, today mostly doing as best they can or as much as they are allowed to at the patient help level, was in its initial development something to beware of. And even today, apart from the skill of some doctors, nurses, etc., it's best to be wary. The life of fools will show history of missing the quest for higher values:.Jeremiah 5:4-11. The tricks of the dark side are rampant in the lives of those of low consciousness. Take for example, the developmental stages of medicine. Myopic approaches showed forth the fools using them.

Arguing is the way a fool uses to defend the temporary he deems immediately important. A fool will use argumentative efforts to the point of futility. Arguing is the way of the unwise who regard others of such little worth that they feel justified risking the creation of an enemy. Angry persons are fools who just can't let go of that which may lead to struggle.

If in a relationship, discuss in advance how you both are going to solve the problem of arguing. Leonardo da Vinci, artist, engineer, said."He who truly knows has no occasion to shout."

Talk to others who care about you regarding your involvement with this person you may be considering as a mate. Get knowledge of your potential mate. One can love anyone they decide to. Heartfelt longings for another you know is no good for you comes from your own internal lack. Fill yourself with God who is within you and you'll become a giver and not a taker who always needs something from without before they feel that they are complete.

A discussion is the exchange of ideas. An argument is the expressing of ignorance once emotions get involved. 

Dating:.When you ask a girl out, be specific: "I'd like to take you out on a date to the zoo and a picnic", "let's research a subject.(of common interest).at the library and have coffee or better yet, tea, after and discuss it", "a Sunday drive in the country", "a hike". Not "let's get together" or "what are you doing tonight?" or worse yet "are you doing anything on Friday?".(who wants to admit that they are not in demand). If she likes you and the date sounds interesting and she is available at that time, she'll go.

Like all things in life they involve a process; in this case selecting a mate, one of the most important things you can do. So we have these special dating notes for you. Hey! You want to avoid a perfunctory process.

Some women are good doers; that is, they like to do things for you and that is fine; but also of consideration here is; are they also just as interested in doing things with you?.Luke 10:38-42 "Now it came to pass, as they went, that he entered into a certain village. And a certain woman named Martha received him into her house. And she had a sister called Mary, which also sat at Emmanuel's feet and heard his word. But Martha was cumbered about much serving and came to him and said, Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Bid her therefore that she help me. And Emmanuel answered and said unto her, Martha, Martha, you are careful and troubled about many things. But one thing is needful and Mary has chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her."

The Great Infinite One is fully capable of providing the 'right one':.Proverbs 19:14. A special oneness can exist in a relationship with a male and a female, both of whom are spiritually inclined:.2Corinthians 6:14.

The difference between maturity and immaturity is what you look for in another. Will 'he's cute', 'he's got money', 'he dresses cool and has great friends' cut it when your sick with your head in the toilet and need his comfort or need help changing dirty diapers? If you want a lasting relationship, look for the enduring character qualities. But no, we take, good looks over compassion, good dancer over kindness, a perfect body over deep understanding, money over sincerity, the higher socially connected over the volunteer, etc. And then we wonder just why we have such a crappy relationship. Those acting hastily according to the fantasies of their mind invite trouble. 

Many girls lack maturity and an interest in the deeper character qualities of the soul, which, by the way, you'll see the good and bad of as the relationship progresses over months and years. Shallow thinking people base their decisions mostly upon externals, as this is what moves their emotions and affects their heart. Do not get trapped by lacking discretion, thus, cheating yourself:.Proverbs 11:22. Decisions made in haste are often a waste!

What do men and women want?
 


.
.
If women wear a pair of panties, a pair of glasses and a pair of pants,
why don't they wear a pair of bras and a pair of skirts?
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
*
.