Look for.(or,
ladies, become).a
woman that is wise:.Proverbs
14:1; 11:16.(word
'gracious'
in the original, means 'to be accepted by and favorable
to all'),
22.(re
word 'discretion'); 12:4.(here
'virtuous' means 'a woman proud of her
high
moral and ethical standards').
Our value to any other is
determined by our conduct. Ladies need to make themselves very precious
to the partner they love and want to love for a lifetime. Charming,
grace,
lightheartedness and joy,
cleanliness, good grooming, intelligence,
poise,
articulation,
creativity, are a
few things to get good at in this regard.
Gentlemen desire a woman
with poise, charm, loyalty, sincerity,
passion
and one who is courteous.
A person with charm can make another feel that both of them are pretty
wonderful! Learn about the lives of some
great women of history.
Look for.(or
ladies, become).a
beautiful woman in presence and in spirit:.Esther
2:9; 2:17; 2Timothy
1:5; 1Peter 3:1-5. Emulate
those with high quality, rather than copy negative habits.
And guys; if you get such
a woman do not forget to praise her around others:.Proverbs
31:28. And what strategy
do you use. Tune it up here.
A woman needs to be courted,
needs to be heard, needs understanding, attention, praise.(expressions
of approval).
Guys, you cannot hear her,
unless you allow her to express herself. Are you really interested
in her, interested in what it is she is, the unique
individual she is?
Learn
conversation.
Learn about dating. It is the most important
part of first interaction
with a woman, that is, as long as you are groomed
well enough to get even to this point. And, if you talk too much her
brain shuts off.
Do you carry yourself well.
Are you proud.(not
conceited).of
yourself and thankful you are on Earth? A woman wants a man she can be
proud of, a man who is happy to be with her, a man competent
to take care of her.
A quiet confident approach
is very effective in reaching out and grabbing a woman's interest. An effective
guy with a woman is one who allows her to come into a relationship at her
own pace, as opposed to a guy who tries to herd
her into it.
And foreplay.(that
which provides for some sexual stimulation.preceding
intercourse; foreplay is such
as touching the sexual organs and kissing that takes place before and
during
taking time for sex).
Learn
from the rhino! A woman knows most guys' biggest interest is in sex,
but a woman also expects interest shown in her unique self. I mean, everybody
has sex parts, right? Seek the higher things in a relationship and the
other will take care of itself.
Kissing is important. Gently
cradle the back of her neck. Not too juicy a kiss. Not too much pressure.
A woman who does not want to be physical won't touch you. She's just not
interested.
Woman are open for 'turning
on' more when relaxed. That is why the relaxing dinner, kind conversation
and
more is important.
Why do women begin lying
about their age when their faces begin to tell the truth about it?
To Satisfy A Man...
...show up in sexy attire
and with food! Ha ha!
Consider doing a few of
these: caress, touch lots, pamper, relish, savor, massage,
make plans, fix, empathize, serenade, compliment, support, feed, tantalize,
bathe, humor, placate, stroke, console, purr, hug, coddle,
excite, pacify, protect, phone, correspond, anticipate, nuzzle, mooch,
toast, minister to, forgive, sacrifice for, beseech, sublimate, entertain,
charm, lug, oblige, attend, implore, trust, fend, coax, clothe, brag about,
acquiesce, aromatize, fuse, fizz, sanctify, help, knowledge, polish, upgrade,
spoil, embrace, accept, butter up, hear, understand, jitterbug, entertain,
calm, dream of, deliver, tease, flirt, commit, enlist, pine, cajole, snuggle,
elevate, serve, rub, rib, salve, bite, nibble, gratify, take her places,
doodle, corny,
swing, slip, slide, slather, squeeze and moisturize.
The most interesting story
of Esther's wisdom and dedication to the right way is told in Esther,
chapters
3 through 10.
Another fine example of
a woman who sincerely loved a man is Ruth.
She was one hot woman.
Ruth had belief and acted upon it:.Ruth
1:6. Ruth trusted God:.Ruth
2:12. They were not as prudish
back then as many are today:.Ruth
3:1-6.(also
shows here that quality women were around Ruth).
Ruth was one fine lady:.Ruth
3:11. Read the story. It is only
4 short chapters.
Also Abigail,
a
fine woman who went to great effort, even risking her life, to bring
peace:.1Samuel
25:2-38.
Other
women
God decided to use.
And ladies.
Be ready
for a guy who really loves you:.Colossians
3:19.(word
'bitter');
Ephesians
5:25,28,29,33. And be looking for a man you want to be subject
to:.1Corinthians
11:8,9; Colossians 3:18; 1Peter
3:5. And look for a man who is wisely, kindly and strongly capable
of maintaining his position in the relationship and in society:.Ephesians
5:24.
A man willing and happy to
take on the responsibility of children, will also enjoy the years it takes
to bring them to adulthood. More.
Is flirtation the gentle
art of making a man feel pleased with himself or is it attention without
intention?
Just enjoy the individual
and the individual will enjoy you.
I can complain because
rose bushes have thorns or rejoice because thorn bushes have roses. It
is all how you look at it.
When a woman tries on clothing
from her closet that feels tight, she will assume she has gained weight.
When a man tries something from his closet that feels tight, he will assume
the clothing has shrunk. Male menopause is a lot more fun than female menopause.
With female menopause you gain weight and get hot flashes. With male menopause
and if unattached, you get to date young girls and drive motorcycles. Men
forget everything; women remember everything. That is why men need instant
replays in sports; they have already forgotten what has happened. Men would
like monogamy
better if it sounded a lot less like monotony.
The difference between a relationship
going dead and watching paint dry is one can take longer.
The word marriage in the
New
Testament original Greek means 'to decide toward a definite end', 'to
agree to look after', an agreement.(example).of
minds, whether written down or not, in other words a
committed relationship, which could perhaps better be called BTS, Being
Together Sharing, which is really what a relationship is all about. Marriage
is committing oneself physically
to another in whom one feels rapport
with:.Luke
20:34; 16:8,9. A marriage
license from the state places both the man and woman into a contract with
this third party, the state. One should avoid binding themselves to a third
party in all their own business. Used to be when a couplle got together,
they would list their names as being wedded
in a Family Bible each family had.
In the Old
Testament, it was much the same:.Exodus
21:3.
In marriage or whatever you
may call it, it's where an affair
of the heart's honor
exists:.John
2:1-12. In the Old Testament it meant cohabitation.
The ceremony
called marriage is a celebration
of two people finding love in each other and forming a relationship so
that love can grow stronger as the years pass by.
It does not mean you have
to bring the state
and/or religion into your affairs by getting a marriage certificate, which
after
all, is a license
for sex approved by some level of a government/church making money on it,
unless of course you think that living together as they did in Old Testament
times.(Genesis
11:29; Deuteronomy 24:1,2,5).before
churches got involved is wrong or perhaps you believe that you simply should:.1Peter
2:13.(word
'ordinance' in this verse means an established law', constitutional; not
all acts, orders etc. of many governments are constitutionally legal and
few have a true.constitution
anyhow). A
good government...
"Have a verbal agreement
between the two of you that the only relationship to God that really matters
is the one you have in the silence of your heart. Arguing and fighting
about God can only interfere with that loving connection with God in your
heart."
...Deepak
Chopra.
Mark
10:6-9 on this one and on verse 10: Man couldn't put asunder
unless man bound them under.
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