If the one you've mated
with does not treat you as he/she should, be thankful! Ha ha!
A relationship seldom goes
on the rocks when a couple finds something in common to laugh about.
Today's relationships still
are for better or worse, just not for too long! Sadly though, some
are dead and the 'box' they built together now
gone.
Relationships good or bad
last that way until changed. Be careful not to screw them up unless you
are a sociopath
liking to have something always to fix.
Love and enjoy the one you
choose to be with, but don't kill it all by trying to own them.
It takes some people all
their lives to come to see that their relationships
were only mirroring their subconscious.
The greatest long term relationships
are spiced with a hot sexual attraction that is seldom far below the surface.
Some people hold to 'the
man is the boss'. What does the Holy
Bible say? I have heard it from some men that 'the Bible says'
the woman is to submit to the man. Well, yes, it does say that, but
in the verse immediately before that one, it says that they are to submit
to each other and in.1Corinthians
7:3-5,34.it
says they each have power over one another, here speaking of the
verb
sex. In other words do your best to accomodate each other. Do your best
to learn from each other:.1Peter
3:7.
A woman who can't handle
her life isn't ready for a man. A man who knows not how to handle a woman
will not be able to bring the best she is out of her.
You can recognize true love
when you know an assimilation
of spirits is moving into one; both souls become one:.1John
4:7; Genesis 1:27,28.
"A healthy immune system
is aided by healthy relationships. Universal love espresses as personal
love. Personal love is the concentration of universal love."....Deepak
Chopra. A marriage license that you place yourself under, is permission
from a government to have sex. It wasn't this way in the beginning:.Genesis
24:67. One simply decided to be together with another who felt the
same. It was a binding of the soul:.Numbers
30:2-16. But the cabal always finds a way to charge you money for things,
such as these things.
It's a circle. Love circulates
in the
family of high consciousness. If you feel unloved, unworthy and unsafe,
no amount of the opposite will help because the circle has broken for you.
It is yours and yours alone to keep yourself in the circle. True love is
recognizing
another's soul, that is, to have in your mind that the other is also soul
based; namaste!
A woman's happiness is directly
related to her male partner's emotional state.
If he is affectionate
and empathetic,
he is basically in rapport
with her.
The Great Infinite One is
no prude! He designed
sex to feel good and be most pleasurable long after child bearing has past
and into the age where you finally somewhat
'get it all together', the age where your body is falling apart and you
cannot recall being absent minded, the age where you spend a lot of time
thinking about the hereafter, the age where you go somewhere for something
and wonder what it is you are there after! Ha ha! All reports are now in;
life is officially unfair, but why?
But it is interesting to see how those who are prudish
read sex into many conversations,
like
this lady! Ha ha!
The bedroom cannot
be defiled.(Hebrews
13:4).if
both agree to and enjoy adventurous
sexual variation. The Creator gave you an imagination. Use it! Learn
how to be sexy; poses, clothes, voice, attitude, settings, variations,
etc. Learn to turn each other on. Be
artful and creative! Decide to take action toward ability to be increasingly
passionate.
If you truly love another,
you will do all you can to provide an interesting and exciting sexual experience,
knowing this contributes to ongoing and deeper intimacy.
But for some, they live in an 'empty
box' and for others who live in an angry box that's emptying daily,
get
out while you still can.
Sex for many involves manipulation
for selfish amusement and recreation. How different and meaningful sex
can be when one's attitude changes, changes to accept and appreciate the
pleasure another is giving from his/her sincere heart just for his/her
dear partner.
Every woman wants a man to
be like a rhinoceros taking a month for
foreplay! Lots of attention, hugs and kisses during the day make for
an interesting time later.
On enjoying it and using
your imagination:.Proverbs
5:19; Song of Solomon
1:7,13;
2:14-17;
3:4;
5:4-6,9-16;
6:2;
7th
chapter; 8:1,10.
In a relationship the man
has a responsibility to keep it alive and fun through providing for necessary
things to keep the relationship interesting. That which enriches a woman
here.(new
thoughts, new experiences, etc.), enhances
the relationship.
A woman has a responsibility
to keep the man interested sexually and otherwise:.Ephesians
5:21,28,29; 1Corinthians
11:8-12;.1Corinthians
11:3 "But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ
and the head of the woman is the man and the head of Christ is God."
The Creator designed our
natures to work in harmony with the invisible things He has set, the hidden
underlying
'code'.(for
lack of a better word).with
which we align ourselves through trust
in Him and His words to us. Why is it good
to trust in God?.Psalms
2:12. One thing we can
trust in God for is protection. Another is for success
in fighting evil.
A lesson.(Numbers
22:21-35; 2Chronicles
25:5-22).in
trusting
the Creator to look after you even in things we do not see and the
example of Ebedmelech the Ethiopian:.Jeremiah
39:15-18.
Trust is having confidence
in another regarding a matter of importance to you. Without His Holy Spirit
helping us, we rely
on ourselves, until life becomes so frustrating
that we become discouraged.
We always seem to seek for
ways to elevate the self and for ways to keep life interesting and seemingly.worthwhile.
Apart from Him, we really
just seem to grope
through life, trying this way and then that way, wasting time away from
the only right way, which we cannot
even discover without Him calling us:.Ecclesiastes
3:11 "He has made every thing beautiful in his time. Also he has set
the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God
makes from the beginning to the end."
But because of the low consciousness
man came with, that he was designed with, we remain averse
to the spirituality
of the Creator. It is incumbent
upon us to move from and into higher consciousness.
He created us. He knows that
having laid down the example of love in Christ will enable happiness if
we would just get on with it in our daily lives. Trust the wisdom
of God and His word and they'll become yours toward happiness. If life
is 'off track', then know that the mind over the life, needs to get on
track. How?
Happiness
usually comes from our thoughts. Whatever we may say that we want, a lottery
win, a new house, greater security, it's all so that we can be happy. We
are here to be happy! We are built with two things we can use to ensure
we stay on the trail to happiness. They are comfort and discomfort. If
you would only ask yourself if whatever it is be presently in front of
your attention, is it comfortable for me? you would be able to stay on
the pathway to happiness. If the feeling you get back to you after you
ask yourself that question is one of discomfort, drop it, don't go in that
direction.
We win a lottery, get a raise,
close a deal, give birth, get a new car, house or go on a trip. This really
is not 'happiness'. These things and events may make you happy, but it
is all fleeting.
True happiness as Deepak Chopra
has said, is being happy "just because you are" happy.
Deepak's DVD's are at local libraries. Some
of their content.
Where you make contact with
this Infinite Invisible and Intelligent Energy is when you learn to be
in the still and quiet. Here you
learn to trust this
very real presence to bring your life into order. Here you come to
see that you are entirely sane, entirely loved,.
But our natures are pride
filled and naturally resistive, programmed to keep us from God, until
He's ready and until you are as
well. Without the help of His
Holy Spirit, we could never really find the true God, because God is
in a different realm,
the high consciousness one and we are in, to whatever.extent,
the lower consciousness one. So He gave the Holy Spirit as a free gift,
so that we could use it by allowing it to guide us, permitting
its power to subdue
our self-reliant
ways so we are able to trust His ways and walk forward.
We are all so darn impatient!
One of the hardest things to do seems to be to wait on God:.Psalms
27:14 "Wait on the Lord. Be of good courage and he strengthens thine
heart. Wait, I say, on the Lord."
You who may read this, have
some wisdom and step back and observe the lives of others. Notice the personalities
of others and ask yourself, What will their lives be like in a few years
if they continue on as they are, listening
to their egos?
Keep an adept
eye on the futures of those you may so note and
T
H I N K! Learn from the mistakes of others, so you can avoid those
errors in your own living. Don't make the mistake of going through life
not gaining from the knowledge contained in the scriptures,
knowledge which can keep your life on
track:.Mark
12:24.
