The Great Infinite One has given wonderful guidelines for happy relationships,
however being as pigheaded
as most of us are, we first must try our way, right?
Happy relationships are made
when all parties are of the higher
consciousness realm. It is only then that creation can carry on, creation
of a deepening meaning in the relationship.(*).
Without that it deprecates
right from the start.
When a man and woman are
committed physically to each other, this is marriage in the original meaning:.Genesis
2:24,25 "Therefore when a man leaves his father and his mother and
with, be committed).unto
become one flesh.".From
the physical union a unique
relationship develops, different for every set of couples.
There were great
women with wonderful relationships recorded in the Bible.
Great Infinite One is comprised of only love.
He wants us to have loving harmonious relationships, not relationships
made up of rules and regulations.(Romans
13:10), but rather, to be led of
the heart, having
love expressed from the heart:.Ephesians
The woman came through the
man, was of the man.(1Corinthians
11:8-10), created for him. In this.(the
reason for her creation).there
is special consideration.
From the Infinite One's spiritual
viewpoint, once we have Christ's spiritual
nature of love, we are all one:.Galatians
Acts 15:9; John
10:16. A woman's willingness to fulfil that which she overstands
to be her distinct
purpose, is completely under her privileged
Do you possess an unselfish
desire to satisfy the other? Learn and use these 3 phrases: "I'm sorry";
"I forgive you"; "I love you".
In a relationship each is
accountable to the other, otherwise it will never function as a single
unit and without that, there is no strength in it.
in a relationship will arrive at the place where neither of them have any
wants or needs, desired or expressed, because fulfilment of the other is
always the priority
in the relationship.
A couple I know, together
for over 20 years said this about their relationship. They decided that
a key to maintaining a vibrant relationship was to always be spoiling each
other. They constantly give presents, surprises, help, talk time, sexual
favors; doing all each can to smother
the other with affection in all its various forms; spoiling one another.
9:9; 1John 4:7. Such couples
exhibit an affair of honor and loyalty by showing affection, each being
source of cheer, encouragement and enjoyment to the other.
humanity cannot 'create'.in
term is used in Genesis 1:1. We can
only 'fashion' or 'form' things out of existing material. The closest we
come to physical creating is in reproducing ourselves. This is perhaps
one reason why the devil wants to pervert
and destroy the standard for sexuality that the Infinite One designed.(and
everything else that is good), because
it is deeply connected to our being made in the image of the Infinite One.
abusive relationships. The key
to a loyal mate and the key to building love in a relationship.
-I'm in a marriage by nothing
more than name alone, but wondered if I should divorce after reading Romans
Paul here was using an analogy
of the Old Testament Mosaic Law to show it
is now dead and we are free of it. What
leads to divorce is similar.
God divorced His nation ancient
3:8. Divorce was allowed under the strictness of the
old covenant; how much
more then under the
10:10. Divorce occurs in nature all
If one is 'condemned' to
a 'marriage' from hell, he or she hardly can live abundantly and
in joy and peace:.Romans
5:16. A bill of divorcement under the ancient Mosaic Law could be issued
the relationship if need be so:.Deuteronomy
24:1-4; Mark 10:2-9.
Guess who designed the atom?
break their bond and divorce and attach to others.
If the relationship/marriage
is not 'clean' and there is little or no hope for improvement:.Romans
Some churches today are fanatical
about divorce, greatly frowning
on a divorced person even dating. A divorced
person in a group such as this can develop a state of guilt. It is all
just the religious part of the negative
mass mind of humanity feeding into religious leaders who propagate
thinking onto parishioners.
For the person in such a
situation, realize the reason leaving one another is so high priced is
because it is worth it! Ha ha! Really though,
every cloud does have its silver lining and this will become evident in
Some churches improperly
Matthew 19:6. It is saying
that if a couple is happy together, the Creator's concern is that any authority
should not separate them. The relationship is either bound or broken, with
or without paying money to the state for a license for sex.
the grace of God come because one is willing to keep the ten commandments?
Some religious 'leaders'
today, especially in some fanatical eastern
religions and yes, some in churches in western Christianity too, deal
with each other than was required under the defunct
Old Testament laws. Under those laws, a divorce would occur by a written
down intention to do so and it was over. But in this New Testament time
of grace, where it should be easier and with more freedom, some pastors,
misunderstanding the heart of the Infinite One, advise church members toward
adhering to a bad marriage relationship. Doctrines
of demons they are.
Under the ancient Mosaic
Law, the poor had great consideration, way
more than today. Unfortunately today, it seems to be an 'every man
for himself' world. It was not even that way under the Mosaic Law. People
were out to help one another, to bring others up to the same level they
enjoyed. Now, it's grab as much as one can at any cost to anyone except
11:17-21 "The merciful man does good to his own soul, but he that is
cruel troubles his own flesh. The wicked work a deceitful work, but to
him that sows righteousness shall be a sure reward. As righteousness tends
to life, so he that pursues evil pursues it to his own death. They that
are of a froward
heart are abomination to the Lord, but such as are upright in their way
are his delight.(your
choice). Though hand join in hand,
the wicked shall not be unpunished, but the seed of the righteous shall
be delivered." Psalms 37:26,27
"He is ever merciful and lends and his seed is blessed. Depart from evil
and do good and dwell for evermore."
Such are controllers,
20:25-28 "But Emmanuel called them unto him and said, You know that
the princes of the Gentiles exercise dominion over them and they that are
great exercise authority upon them. But it shall not be so among you; but
whosoever will be great among you, let him be your minister; And whosoever
will be chief among you, let him be your servant. Even as the Son of man
came not to be ministered unto, but to minister and to give his life a
ransom for many."
"Everyone's life is under
someone's control; it might as well be under your own so that you can direct
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Emmanuel was against the
putting away of another:.Matthew
19:9. This verse also infers
that one is therefore free for another relationship if one's partner has
been joined sexually to another. And what if she or he just up and takes
off on you?.1Corinthians
-If one is 'married'.(committed
to Christ, can they, in good conscience, have a sexual relationship with
-In Christ are we not free
from all other spiritual relationships? 1Corinthians
9:19; Galatians 3:28; 4:31.
-Should we marry again?
realize the context is talking about the old covenant law, but nevertheless,
for many men and women in some marriages, it is bondage and not abundant
joy), but also 1Peter
2:16. Sometimes the best way to 'fix' it, is to nullify
it, as God did with the
Paul says in
7:15 that if one's unbelieving mate departs, one is now free as God's
heart is for us to live in peace. And in verse 13 there, it says that if
is one with no real 'agape' love; God
is love and
is now our nature if we have decided to be like Him:.1John
4:17 ".....as he is, so are we in this world.").is
pleased to dwell with you, then you should stay together. Why?
If he or she is treating you terribly, then obviously he or she is not
pleased to dwell with you. The relationship has become an
'empty box'. The word in the original Greek for 'depart' is 'to separate
oneself from'. If your mate's heart has gone to another, he or she has
separated from your heart, from your love.
is spiritual. Let us compare spiritual things with spiritual and not enforce
the spiritual with physical things:.1Corinthians
word 'comparing' here means 'to fit jointly together').
Some couples have so much
faith and hope in each other, that becomes the 'spiritual' part of their
life. This itself,
Being codependent rather
than spiritually activated.(1Peter
1:16-22), ties them to each other
in such a way as to hinder spiritual growth:.1Corinthians
3:11. This is defiling oneself:.1Corinthians
3:16,17,21,23. Some are so codependent, they refrain from independence.
Infinite Conscious One we often refer to as God,
does not want clones.
That's why we are all different
expressions of this infinite intelligent energy, each having a different
relationship with the Creator, a connection that fades
the more we neglect it, yet is always there, waiting. In ancient Job's
case, God waited long enough. Don't get me wrong. Job was a very good
man who did many really good works in sincerely caring for and helping
others. But one thing was missing in Job's life. What
Your particular deep heartfelt
spirit, a sort of, your thinking about what your self is hinting to you,
is different from others. We are all different and meant to be that way.
Not that we should be different by being evil, but different in ways of
God expressing as us and that's all and only ever will be, the ways of
good, because it's of God.
There is no one like you
or ever will be. In this deepest expression of you on Earth is the Creator
expressing as through the purpose for your existence here and now in this
world. The Creator is not the energy. He is that from which energy and
all made of it comes from. All things are made with the creative ability
of His spirit of wholeness, often called the Holy
Spirit, the wholeness of the Creator. It's almost unimaginable
what God really is.
The Creator is the
Silence beyond all matter,
but from which all matter is formed, including us, the different expressions
or different frequency patterns.(for,
of the same base we are
17:28; 2Corinthians 5:18;
3:9; Jeremiah 23:24.."As
a tree is the tree part of God, as the sky is the sky part of God, you
are the you part
When in the same consciousness
the Creator has, then, while on that pathway of spiritual growth, we see
the 'light at the end of the tunnel' as it were, we see by coming to comprehend
our ongoing destiny,
that of a never ending journey into increasingly fulfulling realms
of existence. For example, climbing up stairs, you take one level at a
time or maybe a couple:.John
57:15 "For this says the high and lofty One that inhabits eternity,
whose name is Holy, I dwell in the high and holy place with him also that
is of a contrite and humble spirit..."
Consider the diversity
in nature. The Creator doesn't need clones. Monoculture
is not the way of the universe, but we never do learn it seems:.Ecclesiastes
7:29. Corporations are fanatical
about sameness. Same taste of a fast food restaurant in any restaurant
or even country. Herd all the animals in the same cramped quarters; feed
them all the same manufactured chemicalized frankenfeed, etc. etc., ad
nauseum. The deviousness
of humanity based on greed has long surpassed
his intelligence, intelligence meaning, a balanced
and kind mind, a mind that can take one forward through eternal events
of high consciousness living.
are all the
same energy, on the surface in our life expressions, we
This Great Infinite One who
became the universe.with
what He is, and sustains
it with what He does, also became you and
me and all humans with what He thought:.Genesis
1:27; 1Corinthians 10:26.
In doing this, the making
of clones was not the mind of the spirit. The idea of making clones is
of ego thinking. Clones are out
of the imagination of the collective ego mind desiring some form of control
for its own purposes. The Infinite's unique.aspects,
new creations, new spiritual personalities and new expressions, signify
the flow of this intelligent invisible energy to and through us. Higher
not include subjugation
and control of humanity by any means. The only control ever necessary
is in Romans 13:10, the regulation of oneself based on love.
The creative possibilites
are endless. Nothing, absolutely nothing
that can be imagined is impossible; The Infinite we often refer to
as 'He', created an amazing array of different species, as many as He determined
would be sufficient for the purposes they were created for. There are no
And it's the same with the
invisible spirit world, which we also are of, as we have an invisible spirit
in us, a spirit that takes us far above animal consciousness, a spirit
which has always been us, a great spirit of individuality, a spirit which
enables the patterns
we are made from to sustain us, a spirit which is made for
connection with the love frequency which God is:.1John
4:8 "He that loves not knows not God, for God is love." 1John
4:16 "And we have known and believed the love that God has to us. God
is love and.he
that dwells in love dwells in God.and
God in him."
In order to progress toward
the great future for all of both
humanity and spirit kind, we must get good at love. Love is
the sustaining of the invisible world. Because of that, no one can enter
unless they are part of
No one can really tell you
how you should carve out your own life because we are all different:.Philippians
2:12 "Wherefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed.(original
for word 'obeyed' is 'opened minded willingness to learn'),
not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out.(why?.2Corinthians
needs saving from some or other negatives, but with some negatives, it's
best not to fight because Creator-God controls all, example).with
a great respect, as you realize the immense power available to you as it
was for Bruno Gröning and fear
to step outside of its marvelous
effects; it is the power to alter the entire world; how
does one use it?).and
careful to respect this power for what it can do to you and for you; the
power works both ways; you
chose; like electricity, you can use it to make your toast or to electrocute
God's world and He uses the devil in His engineering
of circumstances that affect us.
The Creator does not have
a 'cookie cutter' plan for each member of His creation. Ever see two snowflakes
exactly the same?.Micah
4:4. Rather, God has a separate plan for each of us individually, and
teaches us all differently:.Matthew
20:23. In this teaching much is allowed of our
decisions to come to pass, both good and bad:.Deuteronomy
32:20; Isaiah 46:8-13. This
has to do with our personality and character. One person's life lessons
are different from others.
what is you, how you are and appear to others as you express yourself
through talking, singing, writing, walking, etc. How did you become how
you are now? Your expressions as personality are recycled relationships;
everyone whom you may have known has made you what you are. If you don't
like it, you can change it. You don't have to be how you have been exposed
to. Instead be of higher quality in being
honest in words, situations
you from your Soul's connection with your spirit, is not how you appear
physically. It is the 'abider' that stands beside. It's the
observer. It's the you that you may not have known about.
The way you are to others
involves labels. To instead be as your
spirit is in life, you have to be in line
is your database of information, your stored decisions from which you respond
to circumstances, situations and people. We are here to
People need individual circumstances
and refreshed thinking to be interesting to each other and to the Creator.(why
would he want deadheads?).and
to have unique personalities.
The Creator wants each
to be strong on their own.
The loving nature Emmanuel
came to reveal is that which brings forth unique
of us are the Infinite One's workmanship: Ephesians
2:10. The Creator exhibits this anti cloning.characteristic
of His character in the incredible
diversity of the species of plants that He created.
one's character is one's own responsibility but God often provides
the circumstances. Codependency precludes
this. Wisdom and decisions