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-Teach him or her to become an expert at something having positive qualities that he or she can build on; ornithology.(dealing with birds), fundamentals of computers, interest in mathematics, language and the meanings of words.(etymology); teach him or her to think and add to the knowledge gained from others through books, talks with others, etc. 

Walk with the wise to become wise.(Proverbs 13:20); walk with the knowledgeable to become that way too. Help your child, by using your own intuition in how to develop and maintain a love for one specific interest at a time.

He and/or she will gain great confidence as they become one with the object of their affection. Encourage them to talk about what they learn. Engage them with experts in their field of interest as they become increasingly competent. Help them to go 'all out' to get good at something. Squelch the TV. Limit time with their friends as intuition tells you. Early to bed in time enough to be up at 5 or 5:30 a.m. to pursue study of their interest. Read them.The Autobiography Of Benjamin Franklin.and.The Laws Of Success.

Teach them how to become dedicated, how to stick to it, how to discipline themselves in making themselves do things that should be done that they may not want to do. Teach them to not put things off; to do today what is necessary to do today, so more time will be available for the new or other necessary things that come along tomorrow and they will learn how to maintain themselves

Once he or she knows they have mastered an interest, even just one interest, then they'll know that they can tackle anything life hands them.

If you refrain from proper discipline, you are leaving your child to the courts to discipline him or her later. What a shock it will be to your child then. What will the child think? Probably 'I did my own thing all my life and now they're putting me away in jail'.

Well!.Ephesians 6:4 "And, you fathers, provoke not your children to wrath.(don't hurt them by overspanking and never in anger), but bring them up in the nurture.(original 'training', 'instruction', 'nourish').and admonition.(original 'dealing with the mind and intellect', set in place, 'establish').of the Lord.".That is, a parent's overall concern would be to establish higher consciousness principles so the child can grow up a blessing to himself and others.

You will have created a completely turned off child, one with  erroneous beliefs or perception regarding society and he or she won't have much of a hope for a decent life in his or her future.

You don't want your child to go to jail to have to learn discipline; it's usually far too late then anyway, but what is he or she being trained now to be later like? Do you have the wisdom to see the outcome of present actions. If not, get wisdom. Here's how:.James 1:5.

A child who is not taught to discipline himself, will have to wait for the knocks of life to force it upon him and life will and some will be severe and then maybe it will take till he or she is 70 before they finally wake up. This then will be much harder for him or her and many will buckle early under pressure of trials that could have been avoided with proper parenting.

Children are trained to become delinquent by simply just allowing him or her to do as he or she pleases or allowing them to ingratiate themselves with goodies you've provided that are supposed to make them think that you love them. That's not love, it's blindness; blindness in not seeing what your child's future will turn out to be. Most people have no idea what spoils a child or how to make his or her future bright.

By proper discipline.(Proverbs 23:13,14,24-26; 29:17), you'll know at least that he or she will have the foundation for positive building of a life they and you can be proud of, a life that will stand the test of time.

Don't allow your children to become a victim of idiocy. Turn off the TV, on for about 5 hours or so a week and never let them watch the silliness and idiocy so many childrens' programs hand out. They'll program your child into the gutter. If you don't control their environment and their minds in the formative years, TV and cell phones will and the prisons will increase inmates.

Bring your kids up. Do not let them just grow up. Be aware of all they are doing, so you are sure that it conforms to high standards of character, morality and knowledge.

If you don't do these things, you are destroying another's potential, that of your very own child or children. You are contributing to juvenile delinquency if you neglect these things:.Proverbs 29:15 ".....a child left to himself brings his mother to shame.".It is perilous to leave a child to himself. Why?

By not disciplining him or her with spanking, you are letting him go their own way. If you won't correct him, the state penitentiaries may have to take on that responsibility when he's older. Remember the universal law of 'you reap what you sow'. So, sow the best you know and God will direct the show.

Problem is, few parents have the wisdom to know the difference between a spanking and a beating. One is used to emphasize a point of error on the part of a child in order to protect him or her from future harm by making the same error and the other displays the indignation of a frustrated parent determined to vent his or her anger. One focuses on concern for the child and the other is contempt expressed by the parent. One is of love for the child and the other of hate that the child did something unsuitable.

Take some advice from probably the wisest man.(1Kings 4:29-32,34; 10:23; 2Chronicles 1:11; 9:22-24).that ever lived:

Proverbs 13:1 "A wise son hears his father's instruction but a scorner hears not rebuke."

Proverbs 13:24 "He that spares his rod hates his son, but he that loves him chastens him betimes."

Proverbs 19:18, "Chasten your son while there is hope and let not your soul spare for his crying."

Proverbs 22:6 "Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it."

Proverbs 22:15 "Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child, but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him."

Proverbs 23:13,14 "Withhold not correction from the child, for if you beat.(original 'smite, strike, smart').him with the rod, he shall not die. You shall beat him with the rod and deliver his soul from hell."

Proverbs 29:15 "The rod and reproof give wisdom, but a child left to himself brings his mother to shame."

Proverbs 29:17 "Correct your son and he shall give you rest; yes, he shall give delight unto your soul."

-Train your children as to the proper ways to behave so they won't be awkward.encountering life's various.circumstances:.Proverbs 22:6 "Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it.".This is why it is important for kids to be with their parents around other adults, so they can see how mom and dad are around others and how others interact with mom and dad.

In correcting, don't lambaste someone. Your goal here is not to create fear of retribution by means of angrily controlling and overbearing actions, but vision for the future.

Here, those of higher consciousness find better ways, one of which is knowing how to use thought forms. Thoughts give off reflections.(*). A spiritually inclined person notices them by sensing energy.."Man is a structure of consciousness having a given physical form. A thought form is a structure, perceptible through the man's consciousness relating the information content called thought. That is, a thought form is in fact a specific geometric shape which contains the thought of a person. Summing up, we can put it quite simply. A thought form is a shape of a thought containing some specific information."....Grigori Grabovoi, page 146 in the book. More.

A thought is an actual form, a structure, an exact structure in what Indian tradition calls the Akashic record, the total of all information stored in the invisible grid and produces after its kind. A thought of protection for those you love produces surrounding protective energy which is formed in the invisible.

Mind mathematics comes into play here. When you have a thought, the intelligent invisible grid or Soul, knows just how to handle it, just as it also has the intelligent programming to generate a hundred trillion cells from one cell that divides only 50 times, with each of those cells having also a hundred trillion atoms and all this massive intelligent complexity producing a wonderful baby in 9 months, wonderful that is, as long as it hasn't been poisoned by all the things which could poison it.

Thoughts come to us from our brain, the processor of what was received approximately 6 seconds before.(Amos 4:13).from the Soul of all, as proved in quantum physics in the fascinating.The Holographic Universe series.(see it on YouTube or Netflix).

In this, thoughts from God in the invisible come into manifestation in life, for what's in the mind becomes real in the physical world. When do they become real?

This is the Creator expressing as you if you are of high consciousness and there is not a place where God is not. so then how are we headed to peace?

Are we still in the hologram when in Christ? The hologram producing this physical existence is for proving us, similar to how we would put horses in a corral to get to know their natures, where they could be all the way from docile to high on the wild side. Either extreme would be no good for most of man's purposes for use of horses. So we work with the horses hoping to summon an increasing energy out of the docile one and to tame the high energy wilder ones.

And so, the invisible world is watching humanity, learning as we all go along in this thing called life. They are learning about how spirituality affects humanity and as man grows in spirituality, it's for a great purpose:.1Corinthians 6:2,3: Psalms 8:4-6.

All in the invisible supports the physical world. It's all a hologram, where things, such as us, planets, etc. only appear to have motion, a hologram which is programmable to those of love. Why only them?

The hologram can be changed as we live life's experiences and decide to alter ourselves to better ways. That's our purpose for being on Earth at this time.

This intelligent invisible grid is like a computer which also has an intelligent grid called a motherboard to route signals here and there in it and a hard drive that holds an operating system, which is a program that 'tells' the computer what to do with information you may put into it. Generally users can't change the operating system, but you can change what you use it to produce, such as, a letter can be kind or hurtful. Life is similar.

We each have a soul and there is an Oversoul, the big holographic projection which projects the universe the Creator made and maintains it and can alter it according to what the Creator wants in an experience at any particular time, such as what happened with Balaam's ass:.Numbers 22:21-35.

The Oversoul or Soul with a capital S, which Soul includes the spirit directly from the Silence having the ability to communicate with our spirit.(also called our soul, small 's').for the experience of humanity. Within our realm we can program ourselves. 

Within the Soul.(capital 'S' is the Soul and small 's' is us individually {the souls that we are:.Ezekiel 18:4}).of all is the operating system of the universe. The basic operating system of the universe is already fixed by the great programmer we call Creator-God:.Isaiah 40:25,26.

What is a hologram? and what does it do?

To those not loving, which are those of ordinary low consciousness, they have access to higher consciousness levels to the extent of their care and concern and kindness to others, thus taking them along the pathway of higher consciousness which love is. The lack of love is the limiting factor of humanity, limiting to the degree of low consciousness one has yet to move from.

Problem being that those of close-mindedness, as the ancient Pharisees, Sadducees, scribes, doctors and lawyers were, just 'sit there' in their negativity looking for opportunity to deprecate others or as in the case of these ancients, even persecute others not of their ilk:.Isaiah 65:2-7 "I have spread out my hands all the day unto a rebellious people, which walks in a way that was not good, after their own thoughts; A people that provoke me to anger continually to my face...Which remain among the graves and lodge in the monuments...Which say, Stand by thyself, come not near to me, for I am holier than thou. These are a smoke in my nose, a fire that burns all the day. Behold, it is written before me, I will not keep silence, but will recompense, even recompense into their bosom, Your iniquities and the iniquities of your fathers together, says the LORD... therefore will I measure their former work into their bosom. Isaiah 65:11-15 "But you are they that forsake the LORD, that forget my holy mountain.(that forget about the spiritual side of living)...Therefore will I number you to the sword and you shall all bow down to the slaughter, because when I called, you did not answer; when I spake, you did not hear, but did evil before mine eyes and did choose that wherein I delighted not. Therefore thus says the Lord GOD, Behold, my servants shall eat but you shall be hungry. Behold, my servants shall drink but you shall be thirsty. Behold, my servants shall rejoice but you shall be ashamed. Behold, my servants shall sing for joy of heart, but you shall cry for sorrow of heart and shall howl for vexation of spirit. And you shall leave your name for a curse unto my chosen, for the Lord GOD shall slay thee and call his servants by another name."

Train children about safety and protect them when driving, walking, etc. Hey! It is a big job, but far more rewarding than too much TV.

There's a key to driving very safely.few know of. It's being a 'bubble driver'. Think of the vehicle you may be driving as in a bubble. All you need concern yourself majorily with is being alert to what's in the bubble. The bubble contains the vehicle in front, the one behind, the one on your left and the one on your right. As long as you keep your main concern within the bubble, you'll have a far less frustrating trip and won't make the mistakes most drivers make.

One other thing. Keep just behind.(1/4 mile or so).the majority of highway traffic at a slightly slower speed. Let the idiots zoom past and catch up to the other ones where they feel comfortable with the pack that likes to dart in and out of traffic lanes. You'll lose 30 seconds over them, but you are at much lower risk. And, know where you are going, get in and stay in the lane that will get you there. If the traffic slows down in that lane, stay there; it will speed up again. Have some patience will you?

People have been driving with anger and haste ever since the wheel was invented:.2Kings 9:20.


When being a pedestrian, always walk between the lines when crossing the street, otherwise you could be the one who is in the wrong if you get hit and therefor no compensation under insurance; it was your error. Be extremely cautious here too when standing at a curb waiting to cross the street.

And don't do as this dummy did. She drove through a red light listening to tunes and no doubt, loudly on her headphones, never hearing or even realizing she was driving through an intersection not being alert for both the red light and the intersecting traffic and so not seeing the huge fire truck bearing down on her. The fireman driving the truck had to abruptly brake as he was going at a high rate of speed, responding to a fire call. Watch out for these zombified people!

Again, Proverbs 22:15 "Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child, but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him." Proverbs 17:21 "He that begets.(brings forth).a fool does it to his sorrow. The father of a fool has no joy.".Esau's example. 

A child's training had better include spanks on the bum as necessary. Better to spank him or her now than to have them lack self-discipline, ending up later perhaps as a criminal with the penal system trying to correct him or her or end up as an alcoholic, drug addict or sex pervert:.Proverbs 13:24 "He that spares his rod hates his son, but he that loves him chastens him betimes." Proverbs 23:13,24 "Withhold not correction from the child. For if you beat.(original is 'to strike', 'smite', 'chastise to correct', not to hurt or injure, but to correct, to show a child his behavior, such as being a bully for example, is not only unacceptable, but will lead him into trouble in life, perhaps even prison if his or her attitude remains obdurate).him with the rod, he shall not die...The father of the righteous greatly rejoices.(when his children turn out most decently). And he that begets.(original is 'brings up').a wise child shall have joy of him." Ecclesiastes 4:13 "Better is a poor and a wise child than an old and foolish king, who will no more be admonished."

Psalms 37:4 "Delight yourself in the LORD.(what's the Lord?).and he shall give you the desires of your heart."

The way of the world is one of lack of self-control.(2Peter 1:6).and lack of discipline of self. Children do not know what to master because they are not taught what to master. This allows for evil influences to affect those so inclined and may overcome them:.Ephesians 2:2. See 'breeding killers', 'children born good' and 'how to be sure your children are blessed'. 

Perhaps get the kids into a good martial arts school. The discipline.(2Peter 1:6).and kindness and respect for others they learn is priceless. See the movie.What If? The Movie.for amazing feats of martial arts masters. See the movie.The Grand Self.for moving from beliefs that limit your ability. These movies will help you! Get them!

Tom Bearden talks about it, here.

And as they progress to advanced martial arts, they'll learn secrets of time, motion and space. And they'll learn to run, to run as fast as possible in getting away from someone who is angry and ready to fight if what this scripture says doesn't abet the situation:.Proverbs 15:1. Why run? Because if he catches your kid and he or she 'loses it' emotionally, your kid could kill him. And, you don't want the hassle and emotional lifetime trauma of dealing with that. Keep peace at at all costs with everyone at all times:.Psalms 34:14; 1Peter 3:10,11;.Romans 12:18 "If it be possible, as much as lies in you, live peaceably with all men."

One of the 'as much as possible' things you can learn.

Teach them to pray and to meditate, to study and to think. Few things are more beautiful than a child praying to his Creator. Children quickly develop an almost intuitive faith it seems and their sureness of God is remarkable.

When you spank them, they learn that the behavior for which they are being spanked, is unacceptable. If you choose not to, you run the risk of leaving a child to his own wild and crazy thoughts and the actions that result, effectively leaving the child alone:.Proverbs 29:15 "The rod and reproof give wisdom, but a child left to himself brings his mother.(because she is the one normally with him or her the most).to shame." 1Timothy 3:3,4 "Not given to wine, no striker.(original 'bruiser', 'ready for a blow', 'an abuser', 'a pugnacious, contentious, quarrelsome person'), not greedy of filthy lucre.(greedy {selfish}; will even do illegal things to get money to support his or her vanities), but patient, not a brawler.(ready to fight at the slightest.perceived.provocation), not covetous. One that rules well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity.(soberness of mind; has some sense about him or her; has developed some good life skills; has the life smarts to do well in life; has a good idea what he or she needs to do well in life)".

It is a stupid parent indeed that leaves a child in charge of his own will. See the good advice in The Duties of Parents by J.C. Ryle, ...here.


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"Nothing will ever be attempted if all possible objections must first be overcome."....Samuel Johnson
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